Veteran Ghanaian gospel musician, Edward Akwasi Boateng, has publicly announced plans to legally divorce his wife following the late Daddy Lumba’s and his wives saga.
In the aftermath of Daddy Lumba’s death months ago, he two wives have been locked in a dispute over who should be acknowledged as his lawfully wedded wife.
Thus, the “Makoma So Adee” singer was asked by the host to share his opinion on the ongoing entitlement brouhaha.
The gospel singer, without hesitation, stated, ” As I sat here I caught myself tapping my feet. I cant wait to visit the Kumasi Municipal Assembly (KMA).”
Host: Why are you going to KMA?
Edward Akwasi Boateng:I’ll tell you more after the show. Right now, we’re by the roadside. I’ve been deeply enlightened. Ei! With all the toil I’m going through, if I don’t put proper measures in place, someone might one day show up claiming to be my rightful wifen after my death, yet, this same person left me when I needed her the most.
He had stated a year ago, his ex-wife threatened to divorce him before her family finally returned his ‘Etiri nsa’ (dowry) about five years ago.
He recounted losing several properties, including 17 cars, and how his former wife refused to let him use hers, leaving him to walk.
Evangelist Edward also spoke about starving due to his inability to provide housekeeping money. He mentioned that his wife chose to feed outsiders while letting him go hungry.
Despite efforts by many pastors, including Evangelist Akwasi Awuah and Pastor George Owusu Mensah, to reconcile the marriage, his ex-wife remained adamant.
Evangelist Edward Akwasi Boateng, who has been single for the past five years, expressed his readiness to remarry. He stated that at age 53, he has prepared himself well for a second marriage.
“I’ll be going to KMA to properly dissolve my ended marriage because of what is currently happening to Daddy Lumba”
In February last year, Evangelist Edward Akwasi Boateng, was seen facing challenging times on the streets of Kumasi, where he was selling pendrives, CDs, and even bread.
Once prosperous, his current circumstances reflect a stark contrast to his former life of wealth and success.
The reasons behind his situation were not entirely clear, but reports suggest that his wife played a significant role. It is said that she took control of his assets by having him sign certain documents, leaving him with very little.
In an interview, Evangelist Boateng opened up about his struggles, including the dissolution of his marriage. He revealed that his wife had threatened divorce multiple times before the marriage ultimately ended.
Despite efforts by several pastors, including Evangelist Akwasi Awuah, to reconcile them, their interventions were unsuccessful.
Despite these challenges, Evangelist Boateng maintains a strong faith in God, believing that things will eventually improve.
His story serves as a reminder of the unpredictability of life’s twists and turns and the importance of resilience in the face of adversity.
Prophet Bernand El Bernard, the head pastor of Spirit Life Revival Ministry, has delivered a life-changing gift to well-known gospel artiste Edward Akwasi Boateng during a church service on Sunday, February 25, 2024.
Captured in a video shared by blogger Zhikay Ikejunior, the heart-warming moment unfolded at the Spiritual Revival Ministry in Accra. Prophet Bernand, alongside his congregation, welcomed Boateng and surprised many by unveiling a series of valuable gifts. These included a brand-new car, an all-expense-paid scholarship for Boateng’s children up to university, and a monthly allowance to alleviate his recent financial crisis.
The touching gesture left Boateng visibly moved and speechless, expressing profound gratitude for the unexpected support extended to him during these challenging times.
This act of benevolence follows the circulation of a viral video on the internet, showcasing Boateng selling pen drives and CDs at a bus station in Kumasi. The footage shed light on the gospel musician’s financial struggles, triggering an outpouring of empathy and support from the public.
Boateng’s journey through adversity traces back to the breakdown of his marriage two years ago, during which he endured maltreatment and unfair treatment due to financial strain. The artist was forced to sell nearly 17 vehicles he owned to cope with mounting challenges.
Despite Boateng’s storied career and successful hits such as “Makoma so Ade,” “Kae asem a waka,” and “mebo wodin,” financial hardships continued to plague him, prompting widespread concern from fans and well-wishers. His recent public appearance selling merchandise served as a poignant reminder of the struggles he faced, igniting a wave of compassion and solidarity from those aware of his predicament.
Prophet Bernand’s extraordinary act of kindness serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration, reminding us of the transformative power of compassion and generosity in times of need. As Boateng embarks on a new chapter, buoyed by the support of his community and the unwavering kindness of strangers, his story stands as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the profound impact of selfless acts of kindness.
Gospel musician Empress Gifty has opened up about the emotional pain she endured during her divorce, describing it as one of the most traumatic experiences of her life.
In a video shared on Instagram on April 1, 2025, she candidly spoke about the profound mental toll divorce can take, revealing that it can feel like “starting your entire life again.”
Empress Gifty highlighted how the trauma of divorce can even affect future relationships, particularly when dating someone younger.
She noted that settling with a younger partner often leads to disrespect from family and mockery from friends, making it difficult to feel comfortable or confident in the relationship.
In her post, the gospel star shared her belief that marrying an older man can offer more emotional security. Drawing from her own experience, she expressed how safe and comfortable she feels being with her current husband in public.
“If the man is older than you, you feel safe whenever you are with him,” she explained. “If I am with my husband, I feel comfortable because if you touch me, he will come for you too.”
Through her personal experience, Empress Gifty emphasized the importance of emotional safety and security in relationships, urging others to consider these factors when choosing a life partner.
Marriage counselor Charlotte Oduro has cautioned against mocking or celebrating divorce, emphasizing that it is a painful experience that affects not only couples but also families, churches, and even God.
Following her husband, Apostle Solomon Oduro’s public announcement of their separation, Charlotte addressed the topic in a TikTok video on February 24, 2025. She explained that while some marriages may become irreparable, divorce should not be treated as a trivial matter.
“The Bible doesn’t support divorce because it destroys trust. When a marriage ends, it doesn’t just affect the couple—it impacts children, families, and even the church. God Himself is hurt when a union falls apart,” she stated.
She urged people to approach marriage with caution and not rush into it without proper preparation.
“Divorce is not a joke. If you’re not yet married, take your time. Learn, grow, and make the right choices before entering into something that could later break you,” she advised.
Charlotte Oduro also encouraged couples to work through their challenges when possible but acknowledged that some situations may require separation for safety and peace of mind.
“If a marriage is still fixable, try to mend it. But if staying means losing yourself, choose life. That’s why I always say, ‘It’s better to end a relationship today and enjoy marriage tomorrow than to enjoy a relationship today and break a marriage tomorrow,’” she added.
Her remarks highlight the weight of marital decisions and the need for individuals to recognize warning signs early rather than endure an unhealthy union.
Nollywood actress and successful businesswoman,Chika Ike,has thrilled fans with the news of her first pregnancy at 39.
She shared beautiful photos of her baby bump, dressed in an elegant, royal-inspired outfit, and glowing with happiness.
The announcement quickly spread online, with many fans and celebrities, including Rita Dominic, Mercy Johnson, and Queen Nwokoye, congratulating her and sending their best wishes.
Chika, who divorced in 2013 after seven years of marriage, has kept her personal life private.
However, she has spoken in the past about her dream of becoming a mother.With this exciting news,2025 is set to be a special year for her.
Journalist and entrepreneurAfua Asantewaa has reacted to the surprising news of 2Face Idibia and Annie Macaulay Idibia’s alleged divorce.
Their separation has stirred widespread discussions, given their history of ups and downs and public displays of affection.
Afua shared her shock, noting that many of 2Face’s timeless love songs were believed to have been inspired by Annie.
“2Face’s divorce comes as a shock to me because he penned so many love songs, and I always thought they were dedicated to Annie. Looking at their love and friendship journey, it’s hard to imagine this happening,” she said.
She also suggested that the challenges within their marriage may not be one-sided, contrary to the hot takes on social media blaming 2Face for what they describe as manipulation and insensitivity.
“Men go through a lot in marriage too. Maybe 2Faceisn’t the type to speak about everything Annie does to him, but she often reacts to what he does, and it’s sad to see. For all we know, both of them have issues we aren’t privy to, and when the full story comes out, it might not be clear who’s at fault.”
Interestingly, she noted that the couple’s history of breaking up and reconciling leaves room for hope. However, she agreed that irreconcilable differences is a strong ground for a split.
She concluded by urging fans to approach the situation with understanding and avoid making harsh judgments.
It has been reported that Annie Macaulay Idibia is currently undergoing treatment at a rehabilitation center after her husband’s divorce announcement.
Nigerian investigative journalist, Stella Dimoko Korkus, shared the news on Monday, January 27, 2025.
According to sources close to the situation, media personality Toke Makinwa and singer Tiwa Savage are said to be supporting Annie through this tough period.
In a widely shared post, Stella revealed that Annie is in a very fragile condition.
“Actress Annie Idibia is in a very bad state and allegedly currently in rehab. Insiders reveal that it is very, very bad, and the two people allegedly taking care of her are singer Tiwa Savage and media personality Toke Makinwa. May God heal her,” she stated.
Not long after 2Baba announced their divorce, Toke Makinwa pledged to help Annie seek justice, accusing him of causing immense harm through his toxic behavior and ultimately walking away from her.
Toke Makinwa, showing her solidarity with Annie, criticized 2Baba for abandoning her after everything she had endured during their marriage.
“This is wrong on all levels, and you should be ashamed of yourself for bringing this here. Bring it on, and if you think she’s alone, let me tell you, you’ll have to fight all of us.
“I’m not the one for too much talk, but what is wrong is wrong. As a woman, if you sit on the fence with this, if it misses you, it will touch your daughter or any female in your family. No one is innocent, and if you want to bring this to the media knowing what is happening, we will fight for her,” Toke Makinwa wrote on social media.
Meanwhile, 2Baba has shared another post insisting that he stands by everything he said regarding his divorce.
This came after some netizens, in disbelief, wondered if his page had been hacked.
2Baba has confirmed that he said what he meant, with his eyes wide open and all his senses intact.
Allegations of drug abuse
In the latest season of the Young, Famous and African Netflix series, some viewers noticed certain mannerisms in Annie’s gestures, leading to speculation that she might be using drugs.
Her head twitching, body shaking, and finger movements raised questions about her condition, which some have attributed to the emotional toll of her toxic marriage.
Recent miscarriage
Annie also opened up on the Young, Famous and African series about suffering a miscarriage after being pregnant with twins.
She shared how the experience has deeply affected her mental health.
Netizens have asserted that things perhaps escalated after her husband, who should have been there to support her through such a devastating time, instead abandoned her.
Pep Guardiola is planning to leave his £8.5 million mansion in Barcelona after separating from his wife, Cristina Serra.
According to Spanish media reports on Monday, January 13, 2025, Guardiola and Serra have decided to end their relationship after being together for 30 years.
Guardiola, who has three adult children with Serra, a fashion executive, usually stayed at their luxurious family home in one of Barcelona’s most exclusive areas whenever he visited from Manchester.
It is unclear where Pep Guardiola will stay in Barcelona going forward. When he’s not in the city, he lives at the Deansgate City Suites in central Manchester.
Cristina Serra is expected to remain in the family’s Barcelona mansion, which was once owned by former Mexican footballer Rafa Márquez.
Guardiola bought the luxury property, located in one of Barcelona’s best neighborhoods, from a Russian businessman in February 2021..
South African rugby star Siya Kolisi and his wife Rachel have announced their divorce after more than ten years of marriage, leaving their fans devastated.
The couple frequently shared their affection for each other and their family on social media, earning admiration from many South Africans who regarded them as one of the nation’s power couples.
The announcement of their separation has sparked a wave of reactions on social media, with fans expressing disbelief at the end of their celebrated union.
The pair have asked for respect and privacy as they try to “navigate this transition”.
Siya Kolisi served as the captain of the national rugby team that clinched the World Cup in 2019, while Rachel has been a strong advocate for women’s empowerment and social justice in South Africa.
He made history as the first Black captain of the Springboks, a sport traditionally associated with South Africa’s white minority.
Many South Africans viewed the mixed-race couple as a representation of the “rainbow nation,” highlighting the ongoing racial tensions that persist 30 years after apartheid.
In a previous interview with the BBC, Kolisi spoke about the “horrible” social media abuse they have faced as a couple.
The pair wed in 2016 after dating for four years and share two children together. They also adopted Kolisi’s younger sister and brother following their mother’s passing in 2009.
On Tuesday, the couple released a joint statement on Instagram, expressing that their decision to part ways was mutual and amicable.
“This decision comes from a place of love, respect and understanding that this is the best path forward for both of us,” they said.
They did not give reasons for their split but acknowledged the challenges they have faced as a couple.
The pair said they would still co-parent their four children and continue to work together on their foundation that they have set up.
The Kolisis had just returned to South Africa, with Siya re-joining the Sharks in September, after he cancelled his one-year contract with French side Racing.
The pair was arguably one of South Africa’s most loved couples, with Siya often describing Rachel as his rock and biggest supporter.
Many South Africans have taken to social media to express their heartbreak over the split, with others expressing support for the duo.
“We need to take family responsibility leave tomorrow as a country. We are shattered with this news of Siya and Rachel with this divorce,” one fan posted on X.
“Their legacy as a power couple will endure, inspiring future generations,” the Times Live website reported.
Fella Makafui appears to have embraced the popular notion that success is the best form of post-breakup revenge after her split from Medikal.
She has not only focused on rebuilding her life but has also achieved remarkable milestones in quick succession, radiating happiness along the way.
Reflecting on her recent journey, Fella shared, “I’ve finally accomplished things that have always been dear to my heart.”
Her progress has been evident, as she transformed from merely being known as an actress and former wife to becoming a dynamic businesswoman, successfully reviving ventures that had previously stalled.
Fans have been amazed by how many of her long-held ideas have finally come to fruition, with some even suggesting that her marriage may have limited her full potential.
Support from colleagues has poured in as well, with many applauding her ability to reach such heights in a short period — a challenge many who go through divorce often struggle to overcome.
Let’s take a look at the series of successful feats Fella Makafui has accomplished just months after her divorce
Sold-out movie premieres across the country
Following the social media buzz surrounding Fella Makafui’s divorce and her ex-husband Medikal’s public outbursts, her film Resonance became an instant hit, drawing large crowds to five major cinemas across the country.
The movie’s success extended beyond the cinemas, with sold-out shows even on university campuses in other regions.
In addition to the film’s success, Fella has landed new endorsement deals, including one with Harmony Diapers, while also renewing her contracts with Skinzone Spa and Farmhouse Productions, the creators of the popular Yolo series.
After a long break from Yolo, Fella has also been offered a lead role in a new spin-off, Serwaa TV Series, marking her return to the screen in a major way.
Recently, Fella Makafui took to social media to announce that she has completed her studies in cosmetic micropigmentation in Dubai and has successfully earned her certificate.
She focused on areas including lips, SPMU, BB glow face rejuvenation, and paramedical cosmetic micropigmentation, among others.
Fella Makafui recently launched her sportswear brand, a new extension of her ‘Simply Snatched’ weight loss brand.
This move aims to revamp the weight loss brand’s image, which suffered a loss of public trust after her ex-husband alleged that she underwent surgery to promote her tummy trim products, causing many customers to withdraw their support.
Fella Makafui has been cast in a leading role for the second season of the popular Nigerian Netflix series Anikulapo.
She celebrated this milestone on her Instagram, disclosing that she will portray the character Abena in Anikulapo, a show that explores life in pre-colonial times.
The Chief Executive Officer of the National Film Authority (NFA), Juliet Asante, also shared the news of Fella’s role along with a picture of the actress in action.
Directed by the renowned Kunle Afolayan and greenlit by Netflix, the movie seeks to position Ghana as an emerging destination for film production under the NFA’s #ShootInGhana agenda.
Actor Kwaku Manu has shared insights into the challenges and triumphs of raising his four children on his own, following his separation and divorce over three years ago.
In an interview with Zionfelix, he candidly spoke about the difficulties of single-handedly parenting without their mother’s involvement.
“It’s not easy to raise kids alone, especially if their mothers are not around,” he stated in an interview with Zionfelix.
Manu highlighted the importance of establishing strict household rules to maintain respect and discipline among his children, which he believes has been crucial in managing their upbringing.
“What makes it easier for me is that there are rules in my home. My kids are not allowed to behave anyhow or disrespect the people that take care of them in my home,” he said.
He stressed that his home operates on principles that prevent his children from misbehaving or disrespecting those who care for them.
Touching on the topic of women leaving their children with their fathers, he expressed his willingness to embrace the responsibility, stating, “If you leave them, I’ll gladly take them in.”
Despite the challenges, Manu described his relationship with his children as one filled with joy and companionship.
“They are my friends, my happiness. We’re always excited to see each other. I spend most of my time with them at home because I’m not the type to go out and chill recklessly. I’m not a careless dad,” he noted.
He considers them his closest friends and derives happiness from the time they spend together at home, emphasizing that he is a dedicated and responsible father who prioritizes his family over a carefree lifestyle.
Background:
Following their divorce over three years ago, Naa Okailey Nyarko, Kwaku Manu’s ex-wife, has recently remarried, this time to a white man.
Their separation was publicly confirmed by Manu in a 2022 interview with Kobby Kyei.
While the actor did not disclose the reasons for their split, he mentioned that despite their efforts to sustain the marriage, they ultimately decided to part ways.
He also highlighted that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to a successful marriage, as each relationship is unique.
According to The Associated Press, a spokesperson for Cardi B has verified the news, stating,
“This is not based on any one particular incident, it has been a long time coming and is amicable.”
Amidst speculations about her divorce, Cardi B in an Instagram post did not directly comment about the news rather she posted a photo of her on a rooftop, holding her stomach to reveal a baby bump.
“With every ending comes a new beginning! I am so grateful to have shared this season with you, you have brought me more love, more life and most of all renewed my power,” she wrote in the caption.
“It’s so much easier taking life’s twists, turns and test laying down, but you, your brother and your sister have shown me why it’s worth it to push through!”
Cardi B, born Belcalis Almanzar, and Offset, whose real nameis Kiari Cephus, share two children: their 6-year-old daughter Kulture and their 2-year-old son Wave.
The couple tied the knot in a private ceremony on September 20, 2017, in Atlanta and revealed their marriage to the public a month later.
In 2020, Cardi B sought a divorce from Offset, citing that their marriage was “irretrievably broken.”
Nollywood actress Yvonne Jegede revealed she left her marriage to Olakunle ‘Abounce’ Fawole because she was contributing more financially than he was.
The couple married in February 2018 but separated shortly after the birth of their son in 2019.
In a podcast teaser, Yvonne expressed regret over choosing love instead of financial stability and mentioned that her ex-husband’s sensitivity to jokes due to their age difference also contributed to their divorce.
“He [my ex-husband] is eight years older than me. But the moment we got married, if I tell am say, ‘You dey crease, ‘ he would say I’m disrespecting him. I would if it was the same person I got married to.
“But that wasn’t the main reason I left the marriage. Let me just say the fact, I was bringing more of the money. I’m taking care of my son like nobody exist around me. It’s not easy. I would have gone for money instead of love.”
“When it was time to put his name, I said that as long as I carried all the burden, emotionally, financially and otherwise, I would put my surname with his surname.
“So I put a compound name, Jegede-Fawole. I told him I would remove Fawole if he didn’t accept that he was his child.
When he came and took a picture with the baby, the bloggers finally left me alone because he had accepted that it was his child,” she added.
Since that day, she said, Abounce has never returned to their house.
“He has never called. His son turned one; no call, no text message to say happy birthday. I’m not even asking him to contact me. We no dey the same path again, but your gift dey my hand.
“I even dropped a message for his family members because I dreaded this moment when my child would wake up one day and say where my daddy is. And we got to that stage. I was shaken,”
Despite the separation, she acknowledged his kind heart and noted that their issues weren’t severe enough to warrant a divorce but still led to one.
Abounce has had no contact with their son since their split.
Former Ghanaian football player Nii Odartey Lamptey has revealed how, upon discovering the paternal status of his alleged children with his ex-wife, a moment of reflection kept him from acting in a way that could have altered the trajectory of his life.
In an interview, Odartey Lamptey disclosed to Dan Kwaku Yeboah that he picked up a rifle and took severe action as soon as he learned the results of the DNA tests.
But in the heat of the moment, he soberly considered his options and decided that using the rifle, whatever he meant, was not the best course of action.
“When the issue happened, I wanted to use my gun. It was in my Tundra, but I decided I would not do anything to jeopardise my life, so I did not use it. I was broken, but I was very patient about it, and that has led me to where I am today.
I believe it was God who spoke to me, and so I decided not to use my gun. It used to be in my Tundra, but I decided not to touch the gun again,” he said.
Providing further details on how he handled the whole situation, Odartey Lamptey said that he dedicated himself to his work, which allowed him to get his mind off the saga.
“I strongly believe that, as a man, you need to marry your job. When the issue happened to me, when I came here, I listened to some of the recordings I made on my phone. If you don’t get close to your job, you’ll lose your job and also lose the other things that you focused on,” he said.
About Odartey Lamptey’s divorce saga
Odartey Lamptey and Gloria Appiah’s marriage collapsed in 2013 after it was discovered through a DNA test that the three children he had reared for years were not his biological offspring.
Odartey Lamptey recalled that after obtaining numerous recordings of his ex-wife’s activities, close friends encouraged him to do a DNA test on the children.
As a result, he took the DNA test, which he later referred to as a turning point that led to his divorce.
After their divorce, the football player was ordered to give up his five-bedroom Dome house and pay GHC400,000 in alimony to his former spouse.
Gloria, his ex-wife, was adamant about being the owner of the seven-bedroom East Legon Mansion and eventually prevailed in a lawsuit that forced the football player to leave the property within an hour, allowing her to move in.
But in March 2022, Gloria Appiah was mandated by a High Court decision to provide the former Ghanaian football player the keys to the East Legon house within a month.
Currently, he is wed to Ruweida Yakubu. 2014 was the beginning of their union.Odartey and Ruweida are parents to three children: a boy and two daughters.
South Korean billionaire Chey Tae-won has been instructed to pay his former spouse 1.38 trillion won ($1bn; £788m) in cash – marking the largest divorce payout in the nation’s history.
This verdict arrives almost ten years after Chey’s marriage dissolved following the revelation of his extramarital child.
The Seoul High Court’s decision on Thursday affirmed that Roh So-young – Chey’s partner for 35 years – was entitled to a segment of his corporate stocks.
Representatives for Chey, who leads the influential SK Group conglomerate, declared intentions to contest the ruling, alleging the court had accepted “Roh’s unilateral assertions as facts.”
The sum granted to Roh signifies a significant escalation from the 66.5bn-won settlement ordered by a lower court in 2022.
The previous family court had dismissed Roh’s plea for a share of Chey’s SK shares.
However, this stance was reversed by the High Court, which deemed the shares as joint assets.
In its verdict, the court stated that “it was reasonable to rule that, as his wife, Roh played a role in increasing the value of SK Group and Chey’s business activity”.
The court estimated Mr. Chey’s fortune at approximately 4 trillion won, implying that Ms. Roh – the mother of Mr. Chey’s three children – would receive an estimated 35%.
Furthermore, it determined that Ms. Roh had assisted in navigating regulatory obstacles for Mr. Chey’s enterprise and that her father, former South Korean President Roh Tae-woo, had acted as a “protective barrier” for SK’s former chairman, Chey Jong-hyon.
The court criticized Mr. Chey for displaying “no signs of regret for his immoral conduct during the trial… nor reverence for marital fidelity,” stating that the new settlement considered Ms. Roh’s suffering from her former husband’s extramarital affair.
Mr. Chey’s legal team contended that, instead of benefiting his business, his ex-wife’s political affiliations had been detrimental.
Following the ruling, shares in SK Inc – a major producer of semiconductors globally, with interests in telecommunications, chemicals, and energy – surged by 9%.
South Korean mogul Chey Tae-won has been instructed to pay his former spouse, Roh So-young, a staggering 1.38 trillion won ($1bn; £788m) in cash, markingSouth Korea‘s largest divorce settlement to date.
The decision comes nearly ten years after Chey’s marriage dissolved when it was revealed he had fathered a child with another woman.
The Seoul High Court’s ruling entitles Roh to a portion of Chey’s company shares, after being married to him for 35 years. Chey’s legal team, representing the influential SK Group conglomerate chairman, announced plans to appeal, arguing that the court accepted Roh’s claims without considering their merits.
The awarded sum is significantly higher than the 66.5 billion won settlement proposed by a lower court in 2022, which also dismissed Roh’s request for a share of Chey’s SK shares.
This was overturned on Thursday, when the High Court found that the shares should be considered joint property.
In its verdict, the court stated that “it was reasonable to rule that, as his wife, Roh played a role in increasing the value of SK Group and Chey’s business activity”.
The court put Mr Chey’s wealth at around 4tn won, meaning Ms Roh – with whom Mr Chey had three children – would take an estimated 35%.
It also found that Ms Roh had helped ease regulatory hurdles for Mr Chey’s business and that her father – former South Korean President Roh Tae-woo – had “played the role of a protective shield” for SK’s ex-chairman Chey Jong-hyon.
The court said Mr Chey had not shown “any signs of remorse for his foul behaviour in the course of the trial… nor respect for monogamy” and said the new settlement took into account Ms Roh’s suffering over her ex-husband’s extramarital affair.
Chey’s legal team contended that his former spouse’s political ties did not benefit his business; in fact, they asserted they had been a hindrance.
Following the verdict, shares in SK Inc, a major semiconductor manufacturer with holdings in telecommunications, chemicals, and energy, surged by 9%.
Gospel musician and season 3 winner of Mentor fame Eric Oduro, known as Erico, has opened up about the startling cause behind his divorce, shedding light on his ex-wife’s betrayal involving nude photos sent to a lover in Dubai.
In an exclusive interview on Emelia Brobbey’s Okukuseku show, Erico disclosed the breakdown of trust that led to the dissolution of his marriage.
He recounted discovering his wife’s infidelity when he feigned a terminal illness to test her loyalty during his battle with kidney disease.
Initially supportive, Erico’s wife took a dramatic turn, engaging in explicit conversations and sharing intimate photos with her lover while he was in the same room.
“I was on the bed pretending to be asleep and she was on the couch. I heard the camera clicking multiple times and I thought she was taking photos of me in my vulnerable state. However, when I turned, I realized she was naked and sending the photos to a man whom she was talking to on phone. I heard her tell him if he if ‘he was lusting over her photos, he should wait till she shows him proper bedmatics”.
The final blow came when Erico, pretending to sleep, witnessed his wife sending nude pictures and promising marriage to her Dubai lover, under the false assumption of Erico’s imminent demise.
Confronting her and prioritizing his well-being, Erico made the difficult decision to leave their home and end the marriage, focusing now on his gospel ministry after a successful recovery.
Geremi, a former Chelsea player, has accused his wife of dishonesty in her divorce petition, following revelations that he is not the biological father of their twins, born in 2008.
The 45-year-old former Cameroon star has initiated divorce proceedings after DNA tests confirmed that the twins were fathered by his wife’s previous husband.
According to court documents reported by Mundo Deportivo, Geremi alleges deceit on his wife’s part and claims they slept in separate rooms.
Despite being a two-time Premier League winner, Geremi asserts that no children were born during their marriage after discovering the true paternity of the twins.
The papers read: “If at the beginning of this union the wife was kind, she did not stop lying, presenting as hers the twin children born on June 5, 2008 (4 years before the marriage), everything that motivated their union.
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“That the discovery by the husband that said children were those of her previous husband because they were born during this marriage will alter the harmony of the couple. More seriously, the paternity test carried out will confirm it, forcing his wife to confess, also convincing him to let the children go regularly to their legitimate and biological father.”
The documents further state that Laure, while compliant as a wife, insisted on Geremi sleeping in separate rooms within their marital home.
Geremi felt compelled to distance himself from their residence after facing threats from Laure’s daughter from her previous marriage, who threatened to involve the police.
Geremi, known for his stints at Chelsea, Newcastle, and Real Madrid, seeks a prompt resolution to his divorce proceedings following this unexpected revelation.
A video has surfaced featuring popular Ghanaian media personality and marriage counsellor, Maame Yeboah Asiedu, discussing her stance on divorce.
The video, from 2020, reveals her belief that divorce should not be the immediate solution to marital challenges.
At that time, she emphasised the importance of working on marriages and suggested that divorce should only be considered when all other options have been thoroughly explored.
The emergence of this video comes amid speculation and allegations regarding her own divorce and subsequent remarriage.
“I don’t believe in divorce; I believe in working out marriages. God has his reasons for putting you in a marriage. Because, come what may, you should be able to work at it.
“Divorce is not an option for me; that is why I always advise people to marry the right people. But if the marriage deteriorates to the point that they can’t go further, then they can understand,” he said.
Maame Yeboah further said that marriages should be unions between mature individuals and should be embarked upon with the right mindset.
“Marriage is for the mature mind. You shouldn’t go into marriage with the mindset that you are a star or a better person than your partner. You will get it all wrong. You are marrying your husband as a normal person and he is marrying you as a normal person.
“Marriage is about one’s mindset; if you have the mindset that you are going to test the waters, it won’t end well.
Maame Yeboah Asiedu has recently addressed the reasons behind her divorce from her previous husband and subsequent remarriage within a year.
Media personality and marriage counsellorMaame Yeboah Asiedu has addressed criticisms surrounding her divorce and subsequent remarriage.
She explained that her decision to divorce her previous husband, after nearly two decades of marriage, was influenced by the man’s legal actions to annul the marriage—a move she disagreed with but couldn’t prevent.
Contrary to public perceptions, Maame Yeboah Asiedu asserted that her divorce doesn’t contradict her counseling principles, emphasizing that it was not her choice to end the marriage.
She expressed gratitude to God for the opportunity to remarry within a year of her divorce.
“I haven’t made up my mind to divorce but with all that you hear about me, there is one question I want to ask you, who divorced the other? The only thing I can say is that my husband divorced me; it was not my decision.
“I’m not a deceiver like people say, that I don’t practice what I preach but I have been practising. it’s just that it was taken from me. If your husband seeks a divorce in court, there is nothing you can do about it.
“I am married now and what surprises you is why I married so early after my divorce but I’m a favoured child of God. If I divorced ten thousand times, I would marry ten thousand times. I know why I’m trending but I’m the only woman who has married after divorcing in just a year.”
The recent marriage ceremony ofMaame Yeboah Asiedu, which surfaced on social media, has triggered intense reactions from the public.
Several netizens criticised her for divorcing, especially considering her previous strong advocacy against the same act.
In a revealing conversation with media personality Chude Jideonwo, Michael Ike, son of Emeka Ike, delved into the complexities of his parents’ tumultuous separation and divorce.
Michael recounted experiencing threatening behavior from his father, including an incident where Emeka Ike allegedly asked his son to take his own life in a voice note.
This admission comes amidst ongoing reports of a dispute between Emeka Ike and his ex-wife, where the actor has consistently denied allegations of domestic abuse.
Emeka has spoken about the personal toll of the divorce, claiming to have lost 80% of his assets. However, Michael portrayed his father in a different light, labeling him as deceitful and abusive.
Michael also shared that his father had vehemently opposed his aspirations in music, going as far as to claim that music mogul Don Jazzy would not support him.
Expressing a desire to distance himself, Michael stated that he no longer seeks anything from his father.
These revelations follow a recent interview in which Emeka Ike cautioned his estranged wife against speaking about him, hinting at potentially more hidden conflicts. This family saga continues to unfold in the public eye, highlighting the strained relationship between father and son.
A newlywed couple, Sir Ruffy and Safiyya Datti have got Twitter buzzing with their remarkable love story, notable for its unexpected turns.
Safiyya Datti and Sir Ruffy got married this week.
Per reports, Sir Ruffy got married to Kawthar, a close friend of Safiyya, in 2020 but unfortunately parted ways three years after marriage.
Following Sir Ruffy and Kawthar’s wedding, Safiyya commented under the post Sir Ruffy had made to congratulate him on marrying her friend. He responded with gratitude, thanking her.
In a swift move, he enters into matrimony with Safiyya within six months after his breakup with his ex-wife, Kawthar.
Taking to Twitter, the newlyweds have shared pictures and videos from their wedding ceremony.
“By the will of Allah and the permission of my parents I got married to a man whom my heart is very much pleased with over the weekend. May Allah make this journey easy for us.A ‘udhu bi kalimatillahi at-tammati min kulli shaytaanin wa hammatin wa min kulli ‘aynin lammah,” Safiyya wrote.
Sir Ruffy wrote: “By the will of Allah I went out and got married to the most gorgeous woman in the entire universe. In sha Allah soyayyar Har abada baby na 2Safiyya Datti. Duniya da lahira Bi Izi’nillah Ina yin Ki,”
Safiyya, expressing her elation, seeks blessings for their journey, while Sir Ruffy professes his love for her, declaring her the most gorgeous woman in the world.
The two women were known for their interactions, exchanging tweets and engaging with each other’s posts.
This unexpected twist in the tale has ignited a wave of reactions from Twitter users, with many flocking to Safiyya and Sir Ruffy’s accounts to share their perspectives on this enthralling love saga.
The legal representative of the renowned Ghanaian footballer, Asamoah Gyan, Edwin Kusi Appiah, has revealed the pivotal statement that prompted his client to initiate divorce annulment proceedings.
In an interview with Kofi TV, Kusi Appiah disclosed that Gyan had been receiving threats from the husband of his now former spouse, suggesting that his three children were not biologically related to him.
The statement that shattered the peace and triggered discord in Gyan’s marriage, ultimately leading to the decision to seek an annulment, was an alleged threat made by the husband of Gifty Oware. This threat revolved around their firstborn child, who, as per Edwin Kusi Appiah, was born in 2005 and was claimed not to be Gyan’s biological child.
Consequently, upon learning of this statement, Asamoah Gyan collected evidence and initiated legal proceedings to annul the marriage.
“Asamoah Gyan married his wife in 2013 but had been with her since 2003. He got information that prior to marrying her, the lady had married another man. Their marriage had three kids with the firstborn coming in 2005. Asamoah Gyan told me he was threatened by someone that the children, particularly the firstborn were not his and that they belonged to him (the person issuing the threat).
“That is what forced us to go to court and seek permission to conduct DNA on the kids. Thankfully, the DNA test proved that Gyan was the father of the children and he was really happy with it. Gyan was happy because he loved the children. That is the main reason Asamoah Gyan went to court,” he said.
In 2019, former national youth star, Nii Odartey Lamptey disclosed that he felt unbearable pain after a DNA test confirmed rumors that three children he raised with his ex-wife for 21 years were not his biological children.
According to Lawyer Kusi Appiah, Asamoah Gyan holds deep affection for the children and is content with the court’s decision.
In an interview with Asempa FM, Kusi Appiah further clarified that Asamoah Gyan initiated the paternity tests because of persistent pressure from Gifty Oware’s former husband, identified as Mr. Oware. Mr. Oware, who resides in the UK, repeatedly asserted that Gifty Oware bore the children during her marriage to him, raising doubts about their paternity and prompting the need for the tests.
“When the DNA test proved that all kids were his, Asamoah Gyan was extremely happy. He was happy because he had been challenged by someone that his wife wasn’t his and that at the time they married, the wife was also married to another person. The person even told Asamoah Gyan that he suspects some of the children were his.
“The right thing for Gyan to have done was to make sure that he conducted a DNA test to prove the paternity of the children. When people were criticizing Gyan for being irresponsible, he was jubilating because he had been vindicated.”
In a verdict delivered by the Accra High Court on October 31, 2023, the prolonged divorce case of former Ghanaian footballer Asamoah Gyan concluded. The court ruled to terminate the marriage that was entered into by Gyan and Gifty in 2013.
As part of the court’s judgment, determinations were made regarding the parentage of the three children of the couple. Gyan had previously contested his paternity, leading to a Deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) test, which ultimately confirmed his biological relationship with the children.
Dennis Law, wrote of the paternity issue in their report: “Initially, Asamoah Gyan had denied paternity of their three children, seeking an annulment of their marriage. However, the court, in its decision on October 31, 2023, established that the three children are indeed the progeny of Asamoah Gyan.”
Other consequential directions relative to the upkeep of the kids after the dissolution of the marriage included that “Asamoah Gyan is obligated to pay Gifty Gyan a monthly sum of 25,000 Ghana cedis.
“This stipend is allocated for the upbringing and welfare of the three children, excluding expenses such as school fees, medical and dental care, flight tickets, and various other childcare-related costs,” the law firm added.
A social media user, going by the name Octopus Trudy and the username @179858, has chimed in on the ongoing controversies revolving around renowned film actress and host of Onua TV’s “OnuaShow Time,” Nana Ama McBrown.
The speculation pertains to McBrown’s alleged pending divorce from her husband, Maxwell.
In a tweet spotted by The Independent Ghana, Octopus Trudy seemed to undermine McBrown’s efforts to quash rumours about her alleged marital troubles.
Trudy stated that the actress’s enigmatic posts on TikTok will not alter the reality that she is sharing her husband with “Accra slay queens.”
The tweet read: “Nana Ama McBrown is doing innuendos and indirect jabs onTikTok. Madam, your husband belongs to the Accra slay queens.”
Social media user’s tweet
Octopus Trudy continued her commentary by offering unsolicited advice. She suggested that McBrown should either terminate the relationship or let the other women in her husband’s life enjoy his company. “Since you won’t leave him, keep quiet and let the small girls enjoy some,” she added.
McBrown’s post believed to have proved reactions from the likes of Octopus Trudy
Rumours surrounding the couple’s possible divorce first emerged following allegations by an Instagram influencer known as “Those Called Celebs.”
The influencer claimed that Maxwell had been unfaithful to his wife with social media sensation Serwaa Prinkles. According to the influencer, Maxwell had even proposed divorce, prompting McBrown to vacate their marital home.
In a subtle retort to these claims,McBrown took to her Instagram page to share uplifting messages such as “It is well” and “Don’t believe the reports about men. If God says yes, no man can say no.” She also displayed her wedding ring in some of her photographs, potentially indicating that her marriage is still intact.
It’s crucial to point out that neither McBrown nor Maxwell have officially confirmed or denied these rumours, leaving the situation steeped in uncertainty.
Importantly, there is yet to be any concrete evidence supporting these allegations.
Life after divorce is a rollercoaster of emotions, akin to putting out fires all around you. Starting over post-divorce involves considering numerous factors. Once the dust settles, thoughts about dating may begin to surface.
Dating, in general, can feel like a 100-yard dash, where you aim to meet someone with whom you can spend your life. When you were single, the world might have seemed full of possibilities, and going on dates might have been exhilarating. However, dating after divorce can evoke more trepidation than a dental visit to have a tooth extracted—it can be painful and scary.
There Is Still Life After Divorce You’ve been through so much pain and loss, finding that excitement you felt about dating before you were married can now feel non-existent.
For those who fared well in the dating game before being married, dating after divorce may be seen as just a new adventure. I had a friend who jumped into online dating before her ex-husband officially moved out. She felt ready to get back in the saddle.
Then there are women like me who could not even think about dating again. My priority was healing from the pain and betrayal I had been through. In addition, I never liked the dating scene even before I was married.
I sent a powerful intention out to the Universe that I wanted to heal on a deep level so that I didn’t attract the same kind of man and/or the same relationship patterns I had found myself in. I wanted to find my soul mate, but I knew deep down that it would take me healing first.
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17 Pieces of Dating Advice for Life After Divorce
Wait to Date This is probably not what you wanted to hear right out of the gate, but taking time to be alone is one of the best gifts you can give yourself. It’s a golden opportunity to get to know yourself and what you like and don’t like.
It gives you sacred time to heal on a deep level, something you probably have not done before. Taking your time will allow you to grieve your loss more fully.
Practice Self-Care When you take great care of yourself, you will feel good, and your confidence will increase. This will help you “attract” the person you desire.
When you feel good, your energy will attract like-minded people.
Do the Inner Work The time after divorce that I call the “Void” is the perfect time to go within and heal any limiting beliefs about love and relationships you have. If you’ve noticed you keep repeating the same patterns in your relationships or choosing the same “type” of guy, you have work to do.
Find ways to heal from within using energy and tools such as emotional freedom techniques (EFT).
Keep Your Life Separate From Your Role as a Mom Your kids do not need to be involved in that part of your life. Keeping it private will help you make decisions based on what is important to you.
Getting children involved too soon can cause avoidable pain for them. If the relationship does not last, your children don’t have to go through yet another loss.
Giving your child or children time to adjust to their new normal is a gift for them. Research shows that your rapport with your children will also impact what effects your dating has on them.
Spending time building your relationship with your children after divorce is of utmost importance.
Get Clear on What You Want What do you desire for your life? What do you desire in a significant other? How do you want your relationship to be? Do you believe it’s possible for you? (The latter question alone can help you uncover any subconscious beliefs about love, relationships, and worthiness.)
When you ask yourself this question, write down the answer you receive. Don’t worry if you feel you are making it up. The answers that do come to you are coming from your Higher Self.
Become the Person You Were Meant to Be When you do the inner work, get clear on what you desire in a partner. It’s important to embody who you need to be to attract the partner and the relationship you desire.
Begin by showing up as who you want to be. If you must fake it until you make it, that’s okay. Begin to embody being more confident if that is what you desire in a partner.
Surround Yourself With People Who Make You Feel Good Choose who you spend your time with wisely. Build a network of positive people in your life who you can trust.
When you have a supportive network, you will not feel alone in the world. This will help you feel more confident and patient in your approach to attracting a new relationship.
Stop Negative Thoughts Quickly It can become easy to think negatively especially if you’ve been through serious trauma while married and/or through the divorce proceedings.
Dating after divorce can dredge up so many emotions. It can feel like you are spiraling into doom and gloom at the thought of going on a date.
One of the most powerful ways to quickly stop negative thoughts in their tracks is to connect to your heart and breathe.
Make a List You may have heard this before, but this does work. It helps you be specific in what you desire in a partner or relationship.
List as many traits/characteristics you are looking for. Once you’ve completed your list, check the top five traits that are a must. These are things you will not negotiate.
This will help you identify quickly who you would continue to date or not.
Be Open Pay more attention to how you feel when you meet someone new. They may not be what you imagined physically, but don’t discount this person if you feel good when you are with them. You never know where it may lead.
Take Your Time Getting to Know Each Other When you do meet someone that makes you feel good, take your time getting to know each other. Research shows that the divorce rate for second marriages is higher than for first marriages.
It’s not to discourage anyone but to point out the importance of being more conscious of your decisions this time around. This can save you from future heartbreak. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.
Wait to Be Intimate With Your New Partner I’m not sure what the “rules” are for the timing of becoming intimate with a new partner. I never followed anyone else’s rules to navigate my own life. People tend to quickly become “attached” to a partner after sex, so it’s difficult for some people to detach emotionally after being intimate with someone new.
Taking your time getting to know someone and waiting until you are sure that you want to spend time with this person will help you think more clearly. You can make your decisions more objectively this way.
Be Okay With Being Alone Surrender to being alone. Society puts so much pressure on singles to couple up, but there is nothing inherently wrong with you if you have no desire to be in a relationship or you want to take your time.
It’s better to be single than be in an unhappy partnership.
Set a Powerful Intention Once you know you are ready to meet someone new, set a powerful intention for what you desire. Writing it down gives it more power. Your intention is like a magnet drawing to you your deepest heart’s desire.
You Will Know When You Are Ready to Date You will know how you feel. If you dread getting back out there and meeting new people, then you aren’t ready—and that’s okay.
You are the only one who knows how you feel inside. Trust your inner wisdom to show you the way.
Just like when someone walks into a new home and knows instantly it is their house, you will feel it when you are ready to meet someone new.
Prepare to Meet Your New Partner When you are finally ready to meet someone new and someone you desire a relationship with, make the changes now that are bound to happen in the future anyway.
For instance, clear out one side of your closet to make space for your new partner’s clothes. Change your bed or bedding to shift the energy to allow someone new in your bed.
Date for More Than Two Years Before You Consider Remarrying It takes at least 1.5 years to truly get to know someone.Taking your time getting to know each other is essential to a successful union.
It’s a great time to ask important questions about parenting styles, finances, extended family, career goals, and what is most important for each of you.
Final Thoughts Whether you are ready to date now or not, remember that the dating life after divorce can be what you want it to be. You just need to be clear on what you desire, set your intention, prepare for what you want, and allow it to come to you.
The best piece of advice I have for you is to trust the process.
The greater the number of benefits associated with engaging in sexual activity, the more compelling reasons experts provide for encouraging you to have more of it!
Besides the pleasure that accompanies fulfilling sexual experiences, numerous additional advantages make a compelling case for indulging in intimate encounters. Let’s explore some of these reasons:
It can make you look younger: Could this be one of the most intriguing findings ever? Regular sexual activity might just hold the secret to looking seven years younger! Fascinatingly, researchers have discovered that after an orgasm, the human anti-aging hormone DHEA skyrockets to five times its normal level. So, forget about those night creams and consider getting intimate for a natural beauty boost.
It can improve fertility: While it may seem like common sense, the link between frequent sexual activity and increased chances of conceiving a baby is indeed backed by science. Engaging in regular sex can significantly boost the odds of getting pregnant, as it positively impacts the quality of a man’s sperm. For those aiming for “grade-A swimmers,” adopting a routine that includes morning, noon, and night intimacy might just be the ticket to improve your chances of welcoming a new addition to the family!
It boosts your immune system: The next time you find yourself dealing with a cold or flu, consider this interesting fact: your lack of regular sexual activity might be a contributing factor. Engaging in a healthy amount of sex can actually provide a significant boost to your immune system. In essence, the more you engage in sexual activity, the less susceptible you may be to falling prey to illnesses. So, the next time you’re feeling under the weather, perhaps a little more intimacy could be just what the doctor ordered to keep those illnesses at bay!
4. It helps your heart:Indeed, the benefits of a satisfying bedroom session go beyond just the immediate rush. Engaging in regular sexual activity has been shown to have a positive impact on heart health in the long run. Surprisingly, research indicates that having sex three times a week can actually reduce the risk of a heart attack by half! With such a compelling reason to stay sexually active, taking care of your heart becomes all the more enjoyable and enticing!
5. It keeps you in shape: It’s not uncommon for people to be skeptical about the idea of sex benefiting physical health, but the truth is that it’s not a myth at all. Sex is indeed a physical activity, comparable to going to the gym, and it can certainly help burn calories. So while you’re having a pleasurable time, you’re also expending energy. The best part is that after a satisfying session, you can indulge in that bar of chocolate without feeling guilty since you’ve already burned some calories! So, embracing a healthy and enjoyable sex life can be a win-win situation for both pleasure and fitness.
6. It’s good for period pains: You’re absolutely right! While reaching for paracetamol may be a common approach to dealing with menstrual cramps, sex can offer a natural alternative as a painkiller.
Engaging in a satisfying sexual encounter can help relax your muscles and, even more impressively, trigger the release of endorphins – the body’s natural pain-relieving chemicals. So, in addition to being a pleasurable experience, a good romp can also provide some relief from menstrual discomfort in a natural and enjoyable way.
7. It works on wrinkles: Amidst the array of marvelous chemicals produced during sex, oestrogen stands out as an incredible wonder. Its most significant advantage lies in its ability to tighten and smoothen facial lines.
In simpler terms, engaging in more sex could potentially lead to fewer wrinkles, as oestrogen plays a part in enhancing skin appearance.
8. It makes you more attractive: While waking up as a supermodel might be a stretch, research suggests that increased sexual activity can indeed have a positive impact on your attractiveness to the opposite sex.
This phenomenon can be attributed to science. When you engage in sexual activity, your body releases more pheromones, often referred to as the “love chemical,” which has the power to attract the attention of the opposite sex. So, while becoming a supermodel might be a lofty expectation, enhancing your allure through the natural effects of pheromones is certainly a fascinating aspect of human biology.
9. It can make you live longer: While it may sound almost too good to believe, some evidence supports the idea that there could be real benefits to be gained. According to certain studies, individuals who engage in regular sexual activity, exceeding twice a week, might potentially extend their life expectancy by up to eight years. However, it’s essential to approach this information with a critical perspective and consider that various factors contribute to overall health and longevity. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle and seeking balance in all aspects of life are key to promoting well-being and potentially enjoying a longer life.
10. It can unblock your nose!: It may indeed sound surprising, but it’s true! In addition to the numerous other benefits, sex can act as a natural anti-histamine. So, the next time you find yourself dealing with itching eyes due to a high pollen count, consider easing those symptoms with a good romp!
Now that you’re armed with this interesting information, why not put it to good use? Instead of reading further, why not indulge in some enjoyable time and experience the potential benefits of this natural anti-histamine firsthand!
Ex-girlfriend of Zionfelix, Mina Lawani, has called him out for sharing her picture on his page.
The drama between the award-winning makeup artiste and Zionfelix escalated some months ago when he impregnated Erica, an Italian-based woman, around the same time she was pregnant for him.
This complicated situation led Minalyn to step away from the triangular relationship, leaving her baby girl with Zionfelix to let him focus on his marriage with Erica, who also has his male child.
On Sunday, July 16, as Mina Lawani, the CEO of Minaly Touch, turned a year older, well-wishers sent heartwarming birthday messages.
However, Zionfelix’s romantic note to his baby mama sparked controversy.
He took to his Instagram page to write: “Saving the best for last. Yaa I celebrate you today as you start a new journey of your life. You are a strong and blessed woman. God got you and as His representative assigned to you, I’m also here for you 24/7 as I’ve always done.”
A popular Nigerian movie star, Damilola Adegbite, has explained why her marriage to her Ghanaian actor, Chris Attoh, collapsed.
Damilola and Chris, who met on the set of the soap series ‘Tinsel,’ married discreetly in Ghana in 2015, following the birth of their son together in 2014.
The pair split up in September of 2017.
In an interview with the media she her marriage ended because “love is not enough.”
She said, “Love is not enough. When you meet somebody and you want to spend your life with them, love is just one of the qualities that you need. But it is not everything.”
The actress stated that she has no regrets about divorcing her ex-husband.
She stated that the only regard she has for Chris Attoh is because he is the father of her son.
In Ghana, a divorce can be requested after two years of marriage, according to Ghanaian attorney Richard Sena Hotor.
He claims that while a couple can seek for divorce two years after getting married, they can only have their marriage annulled one year after getting hitched.
In an interview with Joy News, Mr. Hotor discussed the legal requirements for starting a divorce in the nation.
“If it is something that you’re going to annul, it must be within one year. But if you have just married, it must take at least 2 years before you can bring a divorce petition,” he said.
When both spouses mutually consent to the divorce, the process is made simpler.
However, if there is a disagreement between the parties, it is recommended that one of them retain legal representation before filing the petition in the desired court.
He said, “It’s advisable that you get a lawyer who will first listen to your story and then situate it within the seven facts proving that the marriage has broken down beyond reconciliation.”
The other spouse must submit an answer after the petition has been filed. When a side doesn’t file, the attorney pursues other possible solutions to the issue.
“Once the petition is filed, it is the beginning of the end,” the legal practitioner added.
Mr. Sena said that the length of time needed to resolve a divorce case depends on how intricate the circumstances are.
Further appeals can be made to the court, he added, if a person thinks the court’s decision was unfair.
In a recent discussion about his personal life, seasoned Nollywood actor, Jim Iyke candidly addressed his struggling marriage.
He acknowledged that he had unintentionally neglected his role as a devoted husband and had become solely engrossed in caring for their young child.
Iyke revealed that his primary focus had been on nurturing and tending to their newborn son, inadvertently overlooking his wife’s needs and emotional well-being.
He attributed his inability to sleep and a diminished sense of humor to the profound impact of losing his mother.
Regrettably, he admitted to disregarding his wife entirely, as he wholeheartedly dedicated himself to providing undivided attention to their precious bundle of joy.
According to him: “When I lost my mum I couldn’t find my feet for years, there is a lifestyle, understanding and spirituality. I just really wanted to live my life outside the world because the mistake was already made. Note it took them 72hrs to let me know she was dead.
“I am a product of love, my parents were so in love with each other. Just when I was getting over my loss, my woman got pregnant with my first son. Then I had a quiet space there was nobody to take care of anymore because that was my excuse to heal and there was nothing all of sudden. The loss hit me, I couldn’t sleep. I wasn’t the loving man she met, I am the prankster of the family. I don’t even get invited for family meetings because I make them laugh.
“I lost my sense of humor, I lost the lion in me, I gave myself to the elements and so she suffered for that. I became an obsessive dad, I took everything in me to my son, I was changing diapers, and I was the popular stay-at-home dad. I took everything to him and left her behind.
“I was a husband. I was an excellent father and woeful husband. After a while, she said I can’t find who I married. We are friends and I said if she can wait for me to get myself back I will appreciate but if she can’t I will understand. She said we can’t and we are friends.
“I went out of the country to find a place and I told them I couldn’t find myself so I went to a private beach, I cried and poured out my emotions. I went to other countries to chill with white kids and when I got back I said I am here again.”
In his recently published book, “Adjetey Anang: A Story of Faith, Imperfection, and Resilience,” renowned Ghanaian actor, Adjetey Anang has opened up about his marital struggles, including his admission of emotional and physical infidelity towards his wife.
Adjetey Anang, known for his award-winning performances, courageously shares this sensitive aspect of his marriage journey.
Acknowledging that every marriage faces its own challenges, Anang reflects on the failures within his own relationship with his wife Elorm Anang, whom he has been married to for nearly a decade.
In chapter nine of his book, titled “Marital Challenges and Imperfection,” Anang candidly discusses the trials they have encountered, including the prolonged wait of over seven years to conceive their first child and his own acts of infidelity.
The actor, known for his role in “Things We Do For Love,” humbly admits that what initially began as naive behavior with the opposite sex gradually developed into intense flirtation that occasionally crossed boundaries.
Ghanaian lawyer Richard Sena Hotor has said that individuals can initiate divorce proceedings in Ghana after being married for a period of two years. Hotor suggests that this timeframe serves as a legal requirement for filing a divorce petition in the country.
According to Richard Sena Hotor, it is possible for a couple to seek an annulment of their marriage within one year of their union. However, in order to file for a divorce in Ghana, the couple would need to wait for a minimum of two years from the date of their marriage before initiating the divorce petition.
Mr Hotor said this when he spoke to Joy News on matters concerning how one can start a divorce process legally in the country.
“If it is something that you’re going to annul, it must be within one year. But if you have just married, it must take at least 2 years before you can bring a divorce petition,” he said.
The process of divorce becomes easier when the decision is mutually agreed upon by both spouses.
Nonetheless, in cases where one party disagrees, the other is advised to hire a lawyer to support in filing the petition at any preferred court.
He said, “It’s advisable that you get a lawyer who will first listen to your story and then situate it within the seven facts proving that the marriage has broken down beyond reconciliation.”
Following the filing of the petition, the other spouse is required to file an answer. Where a party fails to file, the lawyer moves forward with alternate remedies to the problem.
“Once the petition is filed, it is the beginning of the end,” the legal practitioner added.
As to how long it takes a court to complete a divorce case, Mr Sena asserted that the process is dependent on how complicated the situation is.
He also noted that an individual can further appeal to the court if he or she feels the court has rendered an unfair judgement.
The Mpohor District Police Commandhas arrested a man in his early 30s for killing his wife after she threatened to file for divorce.
The incident happened at Wiredukrom, a community near Wassa Manso in the Mpohor District of the Western Region.
The suspect, whose name has been given as Atta Sani, is said to have committed the crime shortly after a misunderstanding with his wife.
A family member who narrated the incident to Connect FM’s Omanbapa morning show team indicated that the deceased, Maame Ama, 25, had left her matrimonial home after she made complaints that her husband has been abusing her.
Kwaku Adams adds that she had been living with another person in the same community for some days now after her husband subjected her to another abuse.
“My sister was tired of the marriage because there have been problems lately where the man fights her on every little issue. She has informed us of her intention to leave the marriage and we have been working towards it. She has since left her matrimonial home and was enjoying her peace of mind in the house of another woman in the same community. Her husband went for her in the guise of discussing an important issue with her and committed the crime,” he indicated.
He adds that his late sister innocently followed the suspect to his house in thecompanyof their two-year-old child.
“She followed him with their two-year-old son to their room thinking they were going to discuss something important but he ended up butchering her to death. Neighbours say they heard the two quarreling in the room only for them to later realize that he has butchered her. He left the two-year-old child beside the lifeless body of the mother and bolted,” he added.
The body of the deceased has since been deposited at the morgue whilst the suspect is currently assisting the police in investigations.
The two have three children with the eldest being eight years whilst the youngest is two years.
A 39-year-old teacher has been hospitalized after her husband allegedly assaulted her with a machete at Pankese in Birim North District of the Eastern Region.
The suspect, Baaba Moses attacked his victim, Paulina Agruba on Thursday evening when she was fetching water.
Speaking to Admo News’ Akwasi Dwamena, witnesses said the couple having some misunderstandings for some time.
But things took unexpected turn after Baaba Moses attacked his wife for asking for a divorce.
According to them, the victim has since been sent to the hospital and is in critical condition.
Baaba Moses, the culprit, has also been arrested by police.
Community members have asked that the suspect is dealt with according to the law.
Judy Austin, the second wife Nigerian actor Yul Edochie, has described how the Holy Spirit constantly fights her battles, by thwarting individuals who plot evil against her.
Judy testified to being a major beneficiary of God’s unlimited blessings while declaring herself special and His number one.
She narrated how she has continued to enjoy God’s goodness from her tender age till this moment because she placed absolute faith in Him.
The actress,in a video titled: “IJELE. Judy Austin breaks silence. Shares her story”, posted on her hubby’s Facebook page,asked people to thank God on her behalf.
She said: “I really don’t know where to start from; God loves me so much. I know it might sound strange to a lot of people but God loves me so much.
“I don’t know if he loves people like he loves me. He loves me so much, you will not understand. They says it he that wears the shoes that knows exactly where it pinches. It’s only me that knows, just me.
“But God loves me so much. He has continued to fight my battles. I want the entire world, the whole universe to worship God with me because He has been awesome to me.
“I am a special child, I’m so special. From the time I was born, from my childhood, my youth, till I gave birth to all my kids even till this last baby; oh God! I have experience.
“I’ve experienced a lot of things in this life. I actually started experiencing it from a very tender age. But you know, one thing is consistent in my life, and that thing is God’s love.
“He has loved me all the way. Even when it seems like I won’t make it. Even when it seem like the trouble around me will swallow me whole, somehow, I pull through. Somehow, I’ll still be at the top. I don’t know how that happens but I don’t have to know because God works in mysterious ways.
“He has truly shown me that I am His number one. If I want to talk about what I’ve been through in my very tender life, like how old am I? If I really want to talk about my blessings, I don’t think we will go today.
“God has truly been awesome in my life. Anybody around me will tell you. Every prayer point, I’ve ever written down,Godhas answered every single one of them. And you know what, He can do it for you.
“If your faith is not one hundred percent in God, you won’t experience what I’m experiencing. I’m here today because I have one hundred percent faith in God Almighty, in Jesus Christ of Nazareth. He’s my one and only. I brag with my God.
“I brag with the Holy Spirit because He has done so much for me. He fights my battles as if I’m a princess, like I’m a queen. Like I don’t have to ever stress, I just sit down. Let them come, I’m with you.
“Anybody that tries with me, the Holy Spirit scatters them. How special can you be? This is the height of being special in God’s arm. I’m His number one, I am God’s number one. God I thank you.
“See just have one hundred percent faith in God and forget the rest, no matter what’s happening against you, it means nothing. They say one with God is majority. You don’t have to be with the world, people are wicked. They want you to die.
“So you don’t need people’s validation. Once you have God’s validation in your life, you’re good. If you’re with God, you’re with the majority. There’s nothing that you’ll lack.
“I put to bed when it seems as if it won’t happen. That is God! He came through for me, He made sure that I am fine. Jesus Christ of Nazarethmade sure that I, Judy am fine.
“And then I came home with my baby. I came out and my baby came out. Go and ask around, so many people have died from this. But I go through this and I’m still bouncing, enjoying, laughing, and dancing every day. God loves me!!!”
Popular Ghanaian actor, Salinko, has disclosed that he has been divorced by his wife, whom he married in 2017. The actor revealed that the divorce hit him hard and he nearly went mad.
Speaking in an interview with Poleenu Multimedia, Salinko explained that his wife told him she was fed up with the marriage, and that her father also confirmed that his daughter was no longer interested in the union.
Salinko denied any allegations of abuse, stating that his wife did not make any accusations against him. He further revealed that the divorce had a significant impact on his mental health, and he struggled to focus on his work.
The actor noted that he was able to overcome the pain of the divorce by listening to motivational messages.
“Madam just said that she is fed up, we went to the father and the father also said he can see the daughter is fed up; no one maltreated her or did anything to her. So it is something that happens.
“I nearly went mad my brother, but I had to manage because initially when I go to the market to sell, I can sit there for a while until someone prompts me before I become conscious of myself. It is something that I realize happens from motivational messages. Yes, a lady can tell you that she is fed up without any reason,” he said.
Salinko is known for his comic roles. He has starred in several Kumawood Movies and TV series including the popular ‘Boys Abre’.
A Ghanaian man who has been eight years married has revealed his motivations for engaging in extramarital relationship.
For nearly a decade, Tee feels he’s alone in his marriage. The husband and father of four says his wife does not take up her role as the woman of the household.
In a no-hold back on Joy FM’s Super Morning Show, Tee claimed he is a responsible man who provides everything needed for his household, his wife, however, does not hold up her end of the bargain.
He says the situation has sucked out all the romance in the marriage and feels unloved.
“I’m a very responsible man, I have a wife and I sometimes ask her to do something for me, my intention is not to stress her, but she’ll tell ‘I don’t have time.’ This has been happening for a long time,” he told co-host Kojo Yankson.
“As a responsible man you go around and do everything for the family and the woman you decide to be with treats you as if you are a child staying with her,” he narrated.
Tee believes the situation is what propelled him to seek comfort outside his matrimonial home.
Narrating how he met the other woman, popularly called side chick, Tee said he was always buying food outside and this lady expressed concern.
Although he didn’t divulge the actual reason, Tee said the lady, who at the time was just a friend, has since taken on the role to ensure he is well-fed and taken care of.
“I’m not saying that it is a behaviour that everyone should do but sometimes the behaviour of some wives to push men into this behaviour. Men are like kids, if you don’t give your child food to eat, he will go somewhere to eat,” he said.
He further added that although it is not his wish to cheat on his better half, his wife’s behaviour has gradually pushed him away.
A Nigerian man is said to have passed away from shock after learning that his wife, whom he sponsored to relocate overseas for a better life, waspregnant by someone else.
This cruel story was shared by Twitter user @BolanleCole who claimed that the man had struggled to send his wife and two kids to the United Kingdom so they could have a better life while he remained in Nigeria.
Disappointingly, the wife started having an extramarital affair with another man when she arrived in her safe haven.
Their relationship resulted in pregnancy, which the husband only found out about it recently after his wife gave birth.
The tweep noted that the news of the woman’s infidelity and pregnancy was too much for the man to bear, leading to his sudden death.
While somefootball stars, like Lionel Messi, who eventually married Antonella Roccuzzo, were fortunate enough to find their true love before being famous, other football stars, like Cristiano Ronaldo and Georgina Rodriguez, chose to maintain their romantic relationships even after becoming well-known.
Then there are many who got married while pursuing their careers and had happy endings, while many others got married but were never truly committed to one other for an extended period of time.
However, even the most well-known football players can’t prevent their marriages from disintegrating.
Divorce is a big topic when it comes to marriage involving athletes and footballers. Let’s take a look at 10 popular football players who divorced and how it ended.
Emmanuel Eboue
He was a famous Arsenal player who in turn went broke after a divorce. He was known to be the funniest player to have ever played football, as he was always entertaining.
He once told the Queen of England if he would be the royal dog walker and also beat players down the wing for Arsenal and Ivory Coast.
He also lost his two close relatives during that period and was also suspended from playing football for failing to pay for his agent. The period was so hard for him that he was even contemplating ending his own life.
Ashley Cole
Ashley Cole realised his career peak when he was in Arsenal. He made his name while at Arsenal during the most successful season, 2003-2004, for Arsene Wenger and his men after winning the premier league title unbeaten.
Before an awkward spell at AS Roma in 2010, Cole divorced his wife, Cheryl Ann Tweedy, a famous singer in England.
Unlike other divorced players, Cheryl did not take any money from Ashley, simply because she was richer than him. She also let him keep the $8 million mansion. He allegedly had numerous affairs during the marriage which led to divorce.
Ryan Giggs
He is a legend who played for Manchester United and also became assistant coach for Manchester United. He was extremely loyal to his club all through. However, the loyalty he had for the club did not extend to his family.
Giggs and his wife, Stacey Cooke, seven years divorced in 2017. Giggs paid $52 million after having several affairs including 8 years affair with his brother’s wife, Natasha Lever. This incidence really caught many by surprise as it was not expected of a legend like him.
Thierry Henry
Thierry Henry divorced with his wife, Claire Merry, when he moved from Arsenal to Barcelona, on June 2007. It was a very hard period for him as he was too far from his daughter, Tèa Henry. Henry did admit that it is hard to stay without having kids.
He said that earlier on he just thought of his career and he dedicated all of his time to it and doing his own things.
Henry had a great moment and a great achievement as he won the Champions League and also played with Lionel Messi, who was a youngster when Henry joined the club.
Henry divorced and paid $10 million to his wife after she found text messages in his phone to another woman.
When he finished playing, most of his wealth were no more after he divorced his wife, Aurelie Saha. Saha admits that he lost half of his fortune. After realising this, he started services as he teaches players on how to manage their funds.
Paris Saint-Germain defender Achraf Hakimi’s ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, has said that she needed time to recover from the shock.
Hiba Abouk, requested half of her ex-husband’s assets in a divorce petition.
However, the court informed her that everything was registered in his mother’s name, her “Millionaire”, therefore Achraf Hakimi had no property.
In an interview with ELLE, Abouk said, “I am fine. There are days when it is like this, and others in which you’ve to know how to take blows and make decisions, sometimes complicated, and get used to new situations.
Who would’ve imagined that in addition to facing the usual pain that a separation entails and accepting the grief that the failure of a familyprojectto which I had given myself body and soul entails, I would’ve to face this ignominy. I needed time to digest this shock.”
Abouk continued, “When you separate, you restructure your life, but it’s not anything special either: you’ve to take iron out of the matter. It’s true that, with two children, it is emotionally complicated, but I’m not the first and I will not be the last. The important thing is that I have the peace of mind of having tried and having done everything I had to do.
There are decisions that cannot be made overnight. For me, it’s a premise not to rush in moments of crisis.”
However, there have been reports that the settlement could be challenging, as Hakimi has reportedly registered a significant portion of his wealth in his mother’s name.
Abouk and Hakimi have two children together, Amín, 3, and Naim, 1. The couple married in 2020, two years after meeting in 2018.
The situation is undoubtedly a difficult one for Abouk and her children, and it remains to be seen how the divorce settlement will ultimately be resolved.
However, Abouk’s calm and measured response is admirable, and it’s clear that she is prioritizing her emotional wellbeing and that of her children during this challenging time.
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Achraf Hakimi, a Moroccan defender, has been trending on social media due to concerns involving his divorce from Hiba Aboukhris Benslimane, better known as Hiba Abouk in the entertainment sector.
Since the Paris Saint-Germain player was accused of rape by a 24-year-old woman in France, the divorce case of the PSG defender and his wife has been in the public eye.
In March 2023, Hiba Abouk reportedly requested half of Achraf Hakimi’s assets in a divorce petition.
However, according to unconfirmed reports on social media, Hiba Abouk was informed by the Court that her millionaire husband owns nothing because all his properties have been registered in his mother’s name.
This means that Hakimi has no money, property, cars, houses, or jewelry, and even the utensils he has in his house are not in his name.
Social media users have heavily praised the former Real Madrid defender because they believe that if not for his smartness, he would have lost half of his properties.
Many also said that Achraf Hakimi’s unorthodox style will become the blueprint for men who seek to evade such situations during divorce proceedings.
Founder and leader of the Life Assembly Worship Center, Christian Kwabena Andrews, has urged his followers not allow his personal marital challenges to affect their faith in God.
Addressing his congregants on Sunday, the embattled preacher, popularly known as ‘Osofo Kyiri Abosom’, charged his members to draw a line between their devotion to God and his marital affairs.
He said those who follow him must focus on the spiritual nourishment they receive from him, without being distracted by what goes on in his personal life as a married man.
Talking to his audience in the local Twi dialect, he said “From today, if any Ghanaian asks you about the state of my marriage, tell them it is indeed over.
“Listen, I am the reason you’re here. You’re not here because of marriage. So tell your colleague church members to stop the gossip.
“My wife wasn’t present when God called me. The power I wield is exclusive to only me, and not a shared property with my wife.
The preacher gave this advice while announcing his separation with his wife, Princess Andrews.
The two have been blessed with three children, with Princess lending support to him in his endeavours as a man of God.
But addressing his congregation, he stressed that the marriage hit the rocks, after his wife decided to jilt him for having an affair with another woman.
According to the preacher cum politician, the affair has resulted in a beautiful child whom he will soon outdoor to the general public.
The 2020 flagbearer of the Ghana Union Movement (GUM), however noted that he is unperturbed by the said development.
While defending his actions, he explained that many beautiful women exist and therefore his wife’s decision to abandon their marriage does not bother him.
He added that, his aggrieved wife is currently seeking legal redress on the back of his affair.
Meanwhile, the comments by the preacher have been met with mixed reactions.
In a series of reactions monitored by MyJoyOnline.com, a few have sympathised with the preacher over his actions.
On the other hand, others have criticised his deeds and questioned his integrity as a preacher.
According to his critics, it is unacceptable for a man of God like him to be involved in such an act of infidelity and be unremorseful about it.
His critics further argue that his conduct sets a bad example for his followers and therefore he must not be proud of his alleged adulterous behaviour.
Christian Kwabena Andrews rose to fame during the 2020 presidential elections where he finished third behind President Akufo-Addo of the New Patriotic Party (NPP) and former president John Mahama of the National Democratic Congress (NDC).
His campaign message, which was largely inspired by the ideologies of Ghana’s first president, Osagyefo Dr Kwame Nkrumah, drew a lot of attention to him, plus a considerable following.
Following his suddeen emergence and performance in the race, some pundits and political analysts subsequently touted him as the much talked about ‘third force’ to break the duopoly of the NDC and the NPP.
However, after the 2020 polls, he has been visibly missing in the political discourse.
At the moment, there are no indications as to whether he will put up another fight in the 2024 contest against the NDC and the NPP.
But sources close to the preacher say he is lacing his boots to contest the presidency again in 2024 after his earlier attempt in 2020.
Apart from his political engagements, ‘Osofo Kyiri Abosom’ is known for his sermons about demonic powers and his penchant for breaking into shrines to burn deities and destroy fetish activities.
Nigerian actor, Charles Okocha, popularly known as Igwe 2pac, has stated that he does not see himself walking down the aisle as marriages do not last these days.
According to the father of two, he is only focused on being a good father to his son and daughter.
He added that most marriages that he admired and deemed exemplary have all crashed or ended up in a divorce, so he sees no point in taking the bold step.
His words, “I have two beautiful kids; a son and a daughter. At this time I am just focused on taking care of my adorable kids and that’s it, and that’s enough. They are my kids and they keep me motivated.
“The truth is I have never been married in my life and I am a happy man. You and I know what is going on these days, you see a couple married for a couple of years and next, they are divorced.
“People you see as role models are getting divorced and when you see them you are like what is going on? These are people you have been looking up to and now they are divorced, how then do you want me to get into this marriage thing?” he quizzed in an interview with Punchng monitored by MyNigeria.
Nearly two years after Kim Kardashian filed for divorce, she and Kanye West have reached a settlement, agreeing on joint legal custody of their four kids, according to the court document obtained by E! News on Nov. 29.
While neither will pay spousal support, Kanye will shell out $200,000 per month in child support to the reality star.
“Everything Kim did here was to benefit her kids,” a source told E! News after the settlement was filed. “She wants to be a good co-parent.”
Though the document still needs to be signed by a judge to be official, the agreement is 21 months in the making and marks a new chapter in their relationship—which has shifted to co-parenting since their split.
“He’s the father of my kids, I’ll always be protective,” she said on The Ellen DeGeneres Show in March. “I always want my kids to see the best of the best, so I just try to—as hard as it can be sometimes—I do try to ignore it and do whatever’s best for the kids. Take the high road.”
Kim, 42, and Kanye, 45, first crossed paths in the 2000s, though their friendship turned romantic in 2012. They welcomed their first child, North, in 2013 before tying the knot in Italy in 2014. The fashion-forward couple went on to welcome kids Saint, 7, Chicago, 4, and Psalm, 3.
Keep reading to look back at Kimye’s most major moments over the years.
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2010: Just Friends
As was documented on Kourtney & Kim Take New York, Kanye swung by the sisters’ future DASH store in NYC. While Kim and Kanye were just friends at the time, October 2010 to be exact, there was definitely chemistry between the two.
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2012: Clearly Close
Although Kim and Kanye weren’t official by the time of his March 2012 Paris Fashion Week Show, she sat front row at the event, even wearing many of his pieces.
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2012: Cheerio!
More than friends! During a day date in London, Kim and Kanye stopped by the Hakkasan restaurant in May 2012.
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2012: Awards Show Date
At the 2012 BET Awards, Kanye took a moment to pose for a picture with his girlfriend Kim.
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2012: South of the Border
According to Kim, this throwback photo is from a trip they took to Mexico before they had any children.
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2012: Courtside Cuties
Kim and Kanye sat courtside at the LA Clippers vs. Denver Nuggets NBA game in December 2012.
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2013: Parents-to-Be
In April 2013, the expectant couple did a little shopping in NYC after Kim finalized her divorce from ex Kris Humphries.
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2013: Kim’s First Met Gala
In 2013, pregnant Kim joined Kanye for Fashion’s Biggest Night: The Met Gala!
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2013: Kimye’s Firstborn
Kim and Kanye welcomed their first child together, North West, in June 2013.
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2013: Rock Solid
This photo was taken just moments after Kanye proposed to Kim in October 2013 in San Francisco. They were surrounded by their family and friends!
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2013: Birthday Babe
The rapper beamed at his new fiancée as they celebrated her 33rd birthday at Tao Las Vegas in October 2013!
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2014: Vogue Cover Stars
Kim and Kanye made their way to the Waverly Inn to celebrate their Vogue cover with Anna Wintour in 2014.
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2014: Sweet Treat
The engaged twosome were spotted grabbing ice cream in Paris mere days before their nuptials.
2014: They Do!
As fans may recall, on May 24, 2014, the two said “I Do” in a lavish wedding at the historic Forte di Belvedere in Florence, Italy.
2014: The Wests
North West dressed to the nines for her parents’ nuptials in 2014.
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2014: Look of Love
The newlyweds take in each other as they hit a red carpet in November 2014.
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2015: Super Bowl Sweethearts
The married duo turned Super Bowl XLIX into a date night in February 2015!
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2015: PDA
Kimye flaunt some PDA while on the red carpet at the 57th Annual Grammys.
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2015: Romance Abroad
The happy couple shares a sweet moment while out and about in Armenia in April 2015.
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2015: Baby on Board
Pregnant with baby No. 2, Kim and Kanye went to dinner at Nobu in Malibu in July 2015.
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2015: Power Couple
Kim and Kanye hit the red carpet at the 2015 MTV Video Music Awards. That night, Kanye accepted the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award and declared he would run for president.
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2015: Baby No. 2
In December 2015, the Wests welcomed another little one into their brood, a baby named Saint!
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2016: Supportive Spouse
Kim supported her husband at his Yeezy season 4 fashion show in 2016.
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2016: A Memorable Night
A year after his headline-making speech, Kanye returned to the 2016 MTV VMAs with his wife by his side.
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2017: Casual Christmas Card
The West family stole the spotlight for day 21 of the Kardashian Christmas card.
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2018: Another Baby Girl!
The couple welcomed baby Chicago via a surrogate back in January 2018.
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2018: Return to Paris
Nearly two years after her robbery, Kim returned to Paris alongside the rapper to support Virgil Abloh‘s debut collection for Louis Vuitton.
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2018: Miami Mood
Kim and Kanye attended 2 Chainz and Kesha Ward‘s wedding in Miami in August 2018.
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2019: The Youngest West
Kim and Kanye turned to surrogacy once more to have their fourth child, a baby boy named Psalm. They welcomed the youngest West into the world in May 2019.
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2019: Fashion’s Biggest Night
Kim pulled out all of the stops at the 2019 Met Gala with her custom Thierry Mugler design. Kanye looked just as dapper with his all-black ‘fit.
A judge in British Columbia has cancelled a marriage annulment after discovering the ex-wife who appeared before the court was an imposter.
In an attempt to get his marriage annulled, the husband used a woman to pose as his wife over a “remote audio connection” in court to deny his ex-wife his pension benefits, according to a report by CBC News.
Warren Zant, a 76-year-old Kamloops resident, married his wife, Gina Zant in the Cook Islands in 1999 and the two separated two decades later. They filed an agreement that stated that Gina Zant would receive survivor benefits with Warren Zant’s Operating Engineers’ Pension Plan.
In Nov. 2021, Warren participated in a virtual court hearing where he appeared by telephone claiming that his ex-wife was also in the room with him. Warren Zant explained to Justice Dennis Hori that their marriage in 1999 could not have been done legally due to Gina Zant not having been divorced from her ex-husband.
Hori accepted these terms after viewing documents that had Gina Zant’s signature on them consenting to the annulment. He had not requested further proof that Gina Zant was indeed the woman on the phone.
Warren Zant then sent a copy of the annulment order to the Operating Engineers’ Pension Plan. After the decision, Gina Zant got wind of the annulment after the administrator of the pension plan called her to update her. Gina Zant said she “was unaware of any court proceedings.”
He scrutinized the original documents Warren Zant had given him and verified emails that stated that Warren Zant’s marriage to Gina was fraudulent. Hori then determined that the papers from Chetumal, Mexico were also fradulent, later confirmed by the Canadian embassy.
David Paul, the lawyer for the Pension Plan stated that the real Gina Zant was “very pleased” with Hori’s decision.
According to Info News, Warren claimed he was mentally incompetent in 2012, but in 2022 on social media there are pictures of him and his new wife happily sightseeing in Mexico.
If you want to get successful at business, look at those who already nailed it, watch, and learn their strategies and habits, and attitude. If you want to get good at running, take advice from runners who have already gone through it all. There are great lessons in someone else’s success, and even if not all of them can be applied to your life, the main points will be something to learn from.
Similarly, when it comes to relationships, we can learn a lot from those around us who made them. Those friends who are still together after everyone else already divorced, those that managed to keep the fire, and those who still talk kindly to each other even after an argument.
There are only a few basic notions that need to click in a relationship, the rest is commitment and hard work from both parties.
But there is one more thing I noticed, observing the well-functioning couples around me — in my family, and among my friends. Although the sample I am looking at is far from complete, what I observed is that in each (cisHet) relationship that is successful and has the potential to last forever, it’s always the man who is more interested.
It’s not that the women aren’t, they are too, but there is a slight imbalance between the two. And this imbalance has been there from the first second.
In the relationships I see thriving, it was always the guy wanting it more, it was him pursuing, him wanting to commit, him wanting to get married and have kids and settle down forever. These are the guys who talk about their wives as “my beautiful wife”, and “love of my life” instead of calling them wifey and my partner.
These are the guys who are proud of what she accomplishes. These are the guys who stand up to their mothers and prioritize family over their friends. The guys who love more.
Editor’s Note: This is a part of YourTango’s Opinion section where individual authors can provide varying perspectives for wide-ranging political, social, and personal commentary on issues.
Traditional relationship roles
Even my feminist friends, those who deeply believe in equality and demand it from their partner and from everyone around — them in their relationship are going for the traditionally more feminine role. The one to be taken care of — now not financially but emotionally. The one that receives — and not only provides. The one that likes to give over the driving seat in their romantic lives — as they are making enough decisions in the professional ones.
This caters to the masculine needs of men, to be in control, to show they can provide, and to take care of the one they love.
The strange thing here is that this should be the normal setup in every relationship, this kind of equality and balance. Yet if the man is not as committed to it as the woman, the woman will be perceived as bossy, needy, and controlling. It takes a man in love to understand that his girlfriend is not emasculating him but is participating in the relationship with thoughts, decisions, and conversations.
Men are willing to grow — but not for everyone.
There have been quite a few studies recently that single men have a hard time keeping up with single women. The latter are healing their traumas and traumas of generations, they work on themselves, they go to therapy, they learn to communicate assertively — and they don’t need a man but want a partner. Women go through self-development for themselves.
Men (not all men, but most) usually go through self-development when it comes to business and productivity, not relationships.
They often fail to acknowledge that they would need healing or therapy, so they fall into the routine of looking for external approval from different sources — such as binge-dating. Unless they find someone that they are really interested in (in love or even obsessed with) they wouldn’t change even for their committed partner, as they get the necessary feedback and they don’t push themselves further — from an emotional maturity point of view.
Relationships need growth, from both parties, especially because women tend to grow and men need to keep up. If the man is unwilling, the woman will quickly outgrow him and the conflicts will never stop.
Men are willing to listen — but not to everyone
Why do you think there is a saying that there is no one on earth paying more attention to you than the man who hasn’t yet had sex with you? Because there is an unquenched thirst from his side that makes him want more, know more, and hear more. And it’s a really great feeling.
This doesn’t necessarily go away after the first sexual encounter, but this wanting and incessant attention only stays if the man is really interested, and more interested than the woman. It probably helps too, if she is out of his league a bit. It is not about women playing hot and cold — but guess what, they do it to keep him wanting more, otherwise he leaves or disappears.
But if he wants, he listens. If he cares, he asks those questions. If he wants to be in her life, he is making her a priority. They will listen, and they will pay attention — but in the long run only if they are more in love.
The thrill of the chase
My theory is that it is because of the thrill of the chase, the appeal of the uncertain and unattainable — even within a committed relationship. Being afraid to lose someone is the biggest motivator to better yourself, listen and pay attention. Being scared to fall out of the good graces of someone you are invested in can stop you from being ignorant and uncaring.
If they are too comfortable and getting everything they need without having to fight for it (there are different ways to fight, not only chasing) the value decreases, and their interest wanes.
And this is when women get too clingy. This is when we are labeled needy. This is when we get ghosted. And this is exactly why a lot of women play too hard to get. This is why we play hot and cold. Because if you give everything without men having to achieve it, they just lose interest and jump to the next subject which is more of a challenge.
Might be a blanket statement, but men only go out of their way to learn the other’s love language, and their ways of preferred being if they care enough to. They only commit if they are interested enough. It’s not good or bad, it just is.
And yes, not all men. I am pretty sure that there are a few exceptions — and pretty sure they are taken and happy in their relationship, where they build a brilliant life with a woman they are still madly in love with — more than she is in lovewith them.
If there is anything to take away from this, is that for women, it is beneficial to look for a slight emotional imbalance in the relationship, and find a guy who is more invested than they are. A guy who loves more. From the get-go.
Men feel more alive and willing to do more if they have to face a challenge. If they are in love. If they have to fight for the woman.
The problem is that women also want to feel alive, and madly in love. They want to give everything. And that chemistry and those fireworks… aah. But my opinion is, that a woman can grow to love a man who she only likes, but a man can only commit to a woman if he is obsessed enough from the very first minute.
It’s not fair. But it’s good to know.
[Disclaimer: I do not want to hurt anyone’s feelings with anything I write. I do reserve the right though to have my opinion, and it’s fine if you don’t agree.]
Have you ever had those nights where he just can’t stop snoring and you wake up the next morning ready to lash out at whoever crosses your path? Or maybe, she can’t stop moving around while she’s sleeping, and you’re left groggy all day. Perhaps one of you gets up at freaking 5:30 am and the other likes to sleep in? We bring to you a solution you’ve definitely considered before, at least in your own mind: sleep divorce.
Sharing a bed is seen as one of the most intimate things a couple can do. On the other hand, a couple sleeping in different rooms often sparks all sorts of malicious gossip. We’re all so used to the idea that couples have to sleep in the same bed, but what if it starts resulting in poor sleep or no sleep at all?
No, sleep divorce is not you dreaming about a divorce. It simply means sleeping in a different bed from your partner or even in a different room if required. That sounds like a great idea, right? No longer will you need four cups of coffee to get you through the day. Say goodbye to your dark circles. But wait, will your marriage suffer?
To answer all your questions, we’ve turned to psychologist Ridhi Golechha (Masters in Psychology), who specializes in physical, mental, and emotional health counseling, for insights. We break down everything to do with this new trend so you can make your decision without too many sleepless nights.
What Is Sleep Divorce?
As mentioned, sleep breakup means sleeping in two separate beds whether they are in the same room or different according to the convenience of you and your partner. Now, if someone told you, “My husband and I sleep in separate rooms,” you’d immediately question the strength of their marriage, right? Well, maybe you shouldn’t. Signs of a bad marriage are completely different.
Think about it, who even told you that you absolutely have to sleep in the same bed as your partner, every single night? Especially if it’s affecting your sleep. Thoughts like, “That’s just how it’s always been!” and “Those who sleep apart grow apart” might be rushing to your mind right now. But did you know that David and Victoria Beckham practiced solo sleeping too? And they seem to be doing pretty well.
A survey run by a bedding company found out that 1 in every 12 participating American couples has already given sleep breakup a shot. This kind of sleeping arrangement has helped a lot of people. When you don’t have to hear the deathly loud snores or the meticulously acted-out dream by your sleep-talking partner, who wouldn’t fancy a marriage of solo sleeping? Are you telling me you aren’t even a little curious?
How Common Is Sleep Divorce?
Not only do the Beckhams prove that it’s a healthy practice for cohabitating couples, but Britain’s Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip never slept in the same bed. And their marriage lasted 74 years. Also, television’s famous face Carson Daly recently talked in an interview about splitting beds with his wife, “We both, admittedly, slept better apart”. If royalty and celebrity stories don’t inspire much confidence in you, maybe science and statistics will.
Let us give you a reality check. According to a survey, 75% of Americans admitted that sharing a bed with their partner affects their quality of sleep and 25% reported that the situation has worsened since the pandemic. In another similar poll run in America, 19% of 2000 respondents blamed their live-in partners for a disrupted sleeping condition. In a survey of 3000 Americans, 30% of the participants admitted their desire to file for a sleep divorce.
Is it time for you to get your own bed?
So, if you are feeling guilty in your mind for secretly wanting a sleep breakup with your spouse/partner, don’t. It shows you genuinely care about this relationship and are willing to make adjustments to sustain it. We get it, it’s a big decision. You may still be on the fence about this one. Plus, there’s probably an awkward conversation you’d have to have with your partner.
But, Studies claim that sleeping separately can improve the quality of sleep because of fewer disruptions. It doesn’t necessarily suggest that your relationship has fallen into a pit and couples should be open to having a healthy conversation in this regard. If executed sensitively, this can be a blessing for your marriage.
How To Ask For A Sleep Divorce?
Before you make up your mind to jump on the sleep divorce trend, it’s important to understand how you should go about asking your partner for one. After all, you don’t want your partner to be anxiously awake the entire night, wondering about the health of your relationship. “I’m not getting enough sleep, let’s sleep separately” might easily be misinterpreted as “I don’t like sleeping with you, I want to sleep alone” as a result of poor communication in your relationship. Instead, you can say,
“Honey, we both know this disturbed sleeping pattern is hampering our everyday routine. We get cranky, we are always tired. I have a proposal that might solve this problem. But before I say anything, you must know that it’s not coming from a place where I love you any less or don’t find you attractive anymore. Will you be open to the idea of sleeping in two separate beds from now on?”
Telling us how we should go about asking our partners for a sleep divorce, Ridhi shares a few important points to consider, “When you are about to have this discussion, make sure your relationship has good stability and bonding. If either of the partners is insecure, asking for a sleep separation might trigger the insecurity even further.
“If either of you has an anxious attachment style, you need to approach such a proposition delicately. The most important thing to consider is that your partner doesn’t take this as a sign of rejection and starts feeling unwanted. The solo sleeping arrangement should be opted when you both feel secure and loved in your bond.”
How to make sleep divorce work without hurting your partner
Understandably, asking your partner for a sleep breakup is a tricky prospect. Even though this practice is on the rise, the stigma attached to the act of sleeping apart is still enough to warrant a few judgmental looks from people you know. Even so, if it feels like the right thing to do, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t follow this sleep divorce trend.
But before you do, have a game plan ready to make sure the situation doesn’t go out of hand in case your partner’s reaction is very disapproving. At this point, it’s your holy duty to clarify that you are not pushing the love of your life away just for the sake of a good night’s sleep. Depriving yourselves of physical affection is so not the intention of this plan. Here’s what Bonobology suggests to strike a balance between your sexual health and personal space:
Don’t verbally attack your partner for ruining your sleep cycle
Use ‘we’ pronouns instead of ‘you’
Reassure them that it has nothing to do with your emotional or physical bonding
If the problem is not about snoring, you may consider two single beds in the same room
Keep some time before you go to sleep for cuddling, feeling each other’s touch, lovemaking, and intimate conversations
Ask your partner to name their terms instead of forcing your wishes on them
9 Ways A Sleep Divorce Can Help Your Marriage
We’re not saying you strictly have to sleep away from your beloved significant other every single night. You can hop into bed with your partner whenever you want. Stay the night even, it’s cold outside of the blanket anyway (and we all know how important sex is in a relationship). But if the snoring or the kicking starts, you know you always have your own bed to go to. And here’s why you should get your own bed:
1. You get to miss your partner
Ever since the pandemic, working from home has become a way of life which basically means you’re spending most of your time with your partner. And we’re sure every couple would agree that constantly being together can get a bit much. You need personal space in a relationship to survive and grow, and being joined at the hip for 24 hours isn’t going to do you any favor.
Ridhi says “Absence makes the heart grow fonder. That saying holds more truth than we care to admit. You must’ve noticed that when you or your partner are away on trips, you start missing them more. Your rational brain starts thinking about gratitude and all the good things in your dynamic, instead of constantly thinking of the shortcomings.
“Once the spotlight from the negatives of your bond shifts to the positives of it, the distance ends up creating a healthier attachment. When you turn to separate beds before falling asleep, you definitely get a chance to miss your partner which in turn can lead to you focusing more on the positives,” she adds.
Spending the nights apart will not only make for more peaceful sleep but will also give you time to yearn for your partner to be with you. If you get through the night without climbing into their bed, you’ll be able to enjoy a cup of coffee or tea with your partner the next morning, with no resentment over lost sleep. We bet by now you’re starting to believe a bit in the whole sleep divorce trend, aren’t you.
2. You’ll finally get enough sleep to survive the day
The number one reason why you should throw ‘those who sleep apart grow apart’ into the trash is that you’ll finally be able to get enough sleep. You won’t be putting salt in your coffee and sugar in your eggs. You’ll be waking up refreshed instead of heavy-eyed and grumpy.
And you won’t be looking over to the other side of the bed with disgust, planning a murder in your head. Instead, you might just go over and hug your partner good morning. Heck, you may even feel like bringing them breakfast in bed. When was the last time you did that as a way of showing affection? Whoever said “You can’t make others happy unless you are happy” was damn right!
3. Studies say it helps the marriage
Is solo sleeping a healthy strategy for marriage or couples who are living together? The data seems to be backing us up. Research claims that getting better sleep increases the overall quality of marital life. And, there are also studies pointing out that a lack of sleep may result in nastier fights.
We already told you how sleep divorce is on the rise and with good reason too. We’re not saying it’ll all be smooth sailing, though. You will need to ease into it with your spouse. Maybe surprise them with a bunch of roses, spice up the makeout sessions, cuddle before saying goodnight, and hop into your own bed for a peaceful sleep, minus the snoring/grunting/kicking. Trust us, you’ll like your partner so much more in the morning.
4. The time you spend together will be a lot more fulfilling
Often in relationships, we end up chasing the amount of time spent together rather than focusing on what we’re both doing during those precious hours together. If you’re with each other all day, chances are you might just end up taking each other for granted, since the humdrum of life might translate into your dynamic as well.
Ridhi tells us how sleep separation may be able to rectify, dare we say it, a boring relationship. “Often we look at the time with our partner from a perspective of quantity over quality. It’s always about “How much time are you spending with me?” and not necessarily about “What are we doing in this limited time that we’re spending together?”
“When you change the focus from spending more time together to spending quality time together, it’ll have a positive impact on your relationship. In this day and age, couples are busy and have a very hectic ‘hustle culture’ life. That’s the reason their sleep quality and the quality of their relationships need to be at the top of their game and sleeping apart can help with both,” she says.
5. No more “You’re on my side!”
When you were dating, you couldn’t wait to see your partner for all the hugs and cuddles. And now, it has come down to this – their immovable leg on ‘your’ side of the bed makes you super angry. You both have your own pillows and blankets and yet almost every night, one person hogs all of the space, and the other struggle to not fall off hanging on the edge of the bed.
When you’re sleeping on your own bed, these problems will never bother you again. No longer will the eight inches of the bed be ‘your’ side. Bed solutions for couples don’t get easier than this and the other common relationship problems will be curbed as well. Instead of figuring out what to do with your arms all night, you’ll finally be able to focus on sleeping.
6. It’ll improve your cuddling and sex life
If you’re sharing a bed but anticipating a restless night, a visual representation of your bedtime with your partner probably wouldn’t feature romantic music in the background or you lovingly staring into your partner’s eyes. It would feature both of you saying goodnight, finding a comfortable position, and trying to sleep. Without even a hint of cuddling.
When sharing the same bed, you might sometimes just have sex/cuddle for the sake of it. When you’re sleeping in separate beds and you start missing your partner, you’ll go over to cuddle because you actually want to. You’ll initiate sex more passionately and willingly. Can you think of any better way to keep the spark alive after ten years of married life?
8. Stay married longer by being healthier
It’s no surprise that getting a full night of quality sleep for at least 7 hours results in multiple health benefits. Studies show that when you get a good night’s rest, your muscles get a chance to recover. You feel well-rested and your overall sleep schedule gets better. If you tend to feel anxious or depressed or suffer from some other mental illness, a whole host of studies claim how crucial it is for you to be getting a good night’s rest.
Wake up refreshed after a good night’s rest!
An average person spends 25 years of their life asleep, make sure you’re not just twisting and turning but actually sleeping for those 25 years. When your body feels fully rested, your mind will feel at ease too. It’ll be easier to put things into perspective and tackle your problems one step at a time. All thanks to sleep breakup, you can do that without popping sleep medicine every night or visiting a sleep specialist.
“Do I need a sleep divorce?” – Take this quiz to find out
Sleep separation can turn out to be a very sensitive issue for many people. Even professional therapists don’t outright prescribe it to couples with troubled sleeping situations. Rather they would lay down the positive and negative aspects of this arrangement and leave the rest to the couple to decide what works best for their marriage. In case you are not sure what warrants you to ask your partner to sleep separately, this quiz might help you prioritize your needs:
Does your partner’s excessive snoring annoy you too much? Yes/No
Do they keep kicking you off the bed throughout the night? Yes/No
Do they come to bed very late waking you up? Yes/No
Do they have a habit of scrolling their phone or working from the bedroom till late? Yes/No
Do you feel anxious before going to bed? Yes/No
Are getting more and more dependent on sleeping pills? Yes/No
Does your partner’s body heat under the sheets bother you? Yes/No
Do you always need a drink before bed to help you fall asleep? Yes/No
Is your sex life taking a serious hit due to the lack of sleep? Yes/No
Are you and your partner fighting a lot throughout the day? Yes/No
If you tick on more than 6 ‘yes’, you should seriously consider shifting to a separate bed. Remember, the problems may lie with you too. Be attentive if your partner is facing similar troubles sleeping beside you.
Key Pointers
Sleep divorce isn’t an actual separation between two partners; it only suggests sleeping in different beds
Several sleep disorders or different sleeping times and bedtime habits of one or both partners might lead to this arrangement
The idea is to get good sleep to keep yourself sane and save your marriage from falling apart
Sleep separation shouldn’t arise from any serious conflicts between two partners
You should set aside some time for physical intimacy and bedtime conversations before going to sleep
Be very sensitive and choose your words carefully when you are asking your partner for a sleep breakup
At the end of the day, if you’re struggling with getting enough sleep and feel groggy the next day because of the pressure to sleep on the same bed as your partner, sleeping solo will most definitely come to your rescue. Considering how sleep divorce is on the rise, we’re pretty sure the stigma attached to sleeping apart will soon fade away too. What are you waiting for? Go buy those two single beds you’ve always wanted but were too shy to bring up. Just send your spouse this article, and they’ll get the hint.
This article has been updated in Oct, 2022.
FAQs
1. Is it OK for married couples to sleep apart?
Yes, it is absolutely okay for married couples to sleep apart. Given that you both realize that this isn’t done as a sign of resentment and is being done only to sleep properly. If one of the parties involved is not happy about sleeping separately, it should be avoided. But if both parties are willing, a sleep breakup can have a whole lot of benefits. You’ll sleep better, feel physically and mentally better, you’ll get a chance to miss your partner and your sex life may just improve too.
2. How do I know if it’s time for a sleep divorce?
If you’re racing to fall asleep first, if your partner’s snoring/kicking about keeps you up all night, and if you directly blame your partner for not being able to get sleep, it’s probably time for you to split the beds. Other signs include you can’t go to sleep without putting earplugs in, having a drink prior to bed, or taking sleeping pills. Sleeping naturally is the best way to do it, and since the solo sleeping trend is on the rise, you could try it out.
3. What are the cons of sleep divorce?
If one partner is not fully sold on the idea of sleep splitting, he/she could develop feelings of resentment. It’s important to make sure that all the partners are completely on board.
As long as that’s taken care of and sexual and intimacy needs are properly communicated, there aren’t many cons to a sleep breakup. Except, of course, having to clean double the number of sheets.’
Xandy Kamelhas praised herself for how good she is looking even after a tempestuous marriage and divorce process.
While emphasizing that not everyone can maintain his or her sanity after divorce, Xandy said she has done a good job with herself.
Xandy Kamel’s1-year-old marriage to Angel TV’s Kaninja crashed after a series of infidelity allegations leveled against the man, surfaced on the internet.
Social media witnessed a nasty fallout between the two as several back and forths from the former couple flooded the internet.
But casting her mind back on all that she went through, Xandy has patted herself on the back for still being able to maintain her sanity and good looks.
In an interview with Zionfelix, the popular actress said she intends to document her experiences into a TV show.
“I am planning on a show. My team and I are planning a show titled life after divorce. It’s not everyone that goes through divorce [and] bounces back even after a month. Not everyone that goes through divorce still stands and grinds. There are a lot of people that have gone through divorce and they have run mad. People are in a mess, [and] even what to eat becomes a problem. People go through divorce and even when you see them, you become sad. But divorce looks good on me. I can beat my chest and say that. I know I look good. I have my sanity, I am happy,” she stated.
According to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), the judge, Malam Rilwanu Kyaudai, confirmed the divorce between the couple through Khul’i (divorce by mutual Agreement).
He, however, ordered that Dahiru return to her now ex-husband, the dowry, a suitcase containing clothes – except the ones she has already used.
“She will only return the clothes she hasn’t used. The complainant has the permission of the court to move her belongings from her former husband’s house”, the judge ruled, as quoted by NAN.
Although Yakubu objected to the divorce, saying he loved Dahiru and had no intention of letting her go, the court granted the divorce.
Meanwhile, in another report, a 25-year-old woman who has been arrested for killing her husband has confessed to the crime, saying he treated her well and they never quarrelled, but she simply hates marriage.
The suspect, Fatima Abubakar who is currently in the custody of Nigeria’s Borno State Police Command, said that she got pissed off without any provocation whenever she woke up to realise that she was married.
According to her, before the tragic death of her husband, Goni Abbah, she had tried to exit the marriage but all her efforts failed.
“I never wanted the marriage. Goni was my second husband; I got separated from my first husband because I hate marriage.
“Anytime I woke up with the fact that I am married, it pieces me off. At some point, I had to run to my parent to demand an end to the marriage but they always sent me back, asking me to be patient,” the suspect told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN).
While in tears, Fatima recounted how she had gone to the extent of sometimes fleeing from the house to sleep outside, in a bid to have some respite from whatever was chasing her from the peaceful matrimonial home.
She lamented that she didn’t know what was wrong with her and that she couldn’t say with certainty that she killed her husbandwho was the Chief Imam of the area.
The Reverend Daniel Kwesi Ayim, Pastor in charge of the Mount Moriah Congregation of the Presbyterian Church has advised couples to endeavor to save their marriages by resolving conflicts. His statement was based on the fact that “Marriage is a blessing from God.”
He said conflicts in marriage should help couples to learn about each other and grow together and should not result in divorce.
Rev. Ayim gave the advice when the Mount Moriah Congregation organised an event dubbed: “Couples Night” to discuss “Managing conflicts in Marriage.”
The event is part of activities to celebrate the Church’s 25th anniversary celebration.
The pastor advised couples to try and manage their anger when issues come up in their relationship and always be committed to resolving the issues rather than giving up on the relationship.
“Keep your issues private as much as possible, however seek advice when you need to and only when the two persons involved have agreed to seek external advise,” he said also urging them to always ensure that they identify the right person should they need external help.
Mrs Hannah Awadzi, a psychologist assistant and author of the book Near Divorce, advised couples to always go on a journey of self-discovery and self-awareness to be able to better deal with conflicts when they arise in their marriage.
“Deal with yourself first, know yourself, know how you are triggered to be able to better handle conflicts when they arise in your marriage,” she said
Mr Maxwell Padi Narh, a legal practitioner, took the couples through the role lawyers play in during conflicts in marriage.
“A lawyer does not advise you to go get a divorce or otherwise, a lawyer comes in when the marriage is already an empty shell and you need legal backings to amicably divorce,” he said.
Ms Patience Mario, a Police Prosecutor, advised couples in the congregation to be mindful of how they discipline their children, “don’t pass your anger from your spouses onto your children, discipline your children when you need to but with love.”
She said beating a child mercilessly in the name of discipline constituted child abuse and parents could be arrested if reported to the police.
