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  • The story behind Valentine’s Day

    The story behind Valentine’s Day

    Whenever Valentine’s Day comes around, people often think of expressing love, exchanging romantic gifts, heart-shaped symbols, and dressing in shades of red or pink.

    In recent times, Ghanaian society has marked the day as a National Chocolate Day celebration.

    But what exactly is the story behind this day?

    The origins of Valentine’s Day date back to 268–270 AD in the Roman Empire, during the short reign of Emperor Claudius II Gothicus. A Christian martyr, St. Valentine, lived and served as a priest during this period.

    Historical accounts suggest that St. Valentine secretly performed marriage ceremonies for Christian couples, defying the Emperor’s decree that prohibited marriage.

    Claudius had banned young men from marrying, believing that unmarried men made better soldiers since they had no wives or families to worry about when called to war.

    Eventually, St. Valentine was arrested by Roman soldiers and imprisoned while awaiting execution.

    During his imprisonment, he grew close to the jailer’s daughter and, according to legend, healed her blindness through prayer. On the day of his execution, St. Valentine left her a farewell note signed “from your Valentine”, a gesture that inspired the tradition of sending love notes and flowers on Valentine’s Day.

    St. Valentine was executed on February 14, 270 AD, and buried near the Via Flaminia. Couples who had been married by him began commemorating his sacrifice, and over time, the day became associated with love and romance.

    By the 18th century in England and France, Valentine’s Day had evolved into an occasion for couples to express affection through gifts, flowers, and greeting cards.

    Today, Valentine’s Day is celebrated worldwide as one of the most iconic events dedicated to love. As February 14 approaches, while you share love with your special ones, remember the man whose courage and compassion gave birth to this tradition.

    Source: GhanaWeb

  • “You can marry anyone if you are truly forgiving, loving, and understanding” – Celestine Donkor

    “You can marry anyone if you are truly forgiving, loving, and understanding” – Celestine Donkor

    Gospel musician Celestine Donkor has highlighted factors she believes people can consider to marry and sustain a strong marriage, regardless of the person involved.

    According to her, “true love, true understanding and true forgiveness” are the main factors to keep a marriage strong in her opinion.

    The ‘Agbeboloo’ singer stated that with these tips in mind, “I believe you can marry any guy.”

    “What introduced love to us is Christ, and Christ loved us while we were still sinners. Love is supposed to be done to imperfect people, but we humans want to love perfect people, and that is the struggle,” she stated in a one on one interview with Lekzy Decomic on Joy Prime’s prime Show.

    She further recounted a difficult moment in her marriage when she had a misunderstanding with her husband but still had to minister.

    “I had to pull myself together and show up for ministration despite the circumstance,” she recalled, highlighting the discipline required to sustain both marriage and ministry.

    On her music journey, the gospel singer revealed that she initially aspired to become a businesswoman or a lawyer, with music being the last thing on her mind.

    However, her mother recognized her potential and introduced her to opportunities that have brought her this far.

    “The plan was to be a businesswoman or to study law, but I ended up doing music,” she said.

    Last year, she shared an inspiring tale of her love story that blossomed purely in the digital realm, leading to a lasting partnership with her husband, Kofi Donkor.

    Speaking on TV3’s ‘Today’s Woman,’ the ‘Testimony’ hitmaker unveiled the unique beginnings of her relationship.

    It all started when Kofi, living abroad at the time, reached out to her after obtaining her contact information from a mutual friend.

    Their courtship unfolded through Yahoo Messenger chats and phone calls, with Kofi becoming convinced that Celestine was his destined life partner.

    In a bold move, he requested an engagement list even before meeting her face-to-face.

    Kofi’s dedication knew no bounds as he traveled to Ghana with one mission to marry Celestine, proving that their connection transcended physical boundaries.

    Reflecting on their unconventional start, Celestine remarked, “We didn’t meet physically. We met online. A very close friend of mine traveled outside, and she met my husband, and they discussed me, so my husband took my number from her and started talking to me from Ghana. We were chatting on Yahoo Messenger and talking on the phone.”

    Their love story deepened with spiritual synchronicity, as Kofi expressed that Celestine was the fulfillment of a divine revelation.

    “He said he also prayed about me, and before he met me through my friend, there was a word he was looking forward to… So, when he met my friend and there was a discussion, he got to know that this is the person the man of God spoke about,” she shared.

    Their bond extended beyond personal life into professional collaboration, with Kofi managing Celestine’s music career for over a decade, providing unwavering support and guidance.

    Their union has been blessed with three children, showcasing the enduring strength of a relationship rooted in faith, love, and the digital age.

    A couple f months ago, hiplife pioneer, Reggie Rockstone, advised that dating should be the focus of singles who lack the virtue of patience.

    According him, his years of marriage experience has proven to him that marriage requires hard work and a lot of patience to sustain it.

    “Just continue being in relationships and don’t think of marriage if you’re impatient. It’s a hard work, but it’s easy as well. Love is good and it’s natural to have a partner,”  he said in an interview on Joy Prime on November 19, 2025.

    Addressing the public perception that dating or marrying a celebrity is difficult, Reggie Rockstone explained that celebrities are humans too, experiencing life in different ways just like everyone else.

    “I’m like everybody else. I go through the ups and downs, I’m actually a stubborn man. Marriage is work. If you’re not patient enough, don’t try it,” he said.

    Renowned Ghanaian actor Van Vicker is celebrating twenty-two years of marriage with his wife, Adjoa Van Vicker.

    Taking to social media in celebration of the milestone, the actor attributed all that has contributed to the stability of his marriage to God.

    He shared a photo on his Instagram page with the caption “22 years of counting, Na God.”

    Van Vicker got married to his wife on October 16, 2023, in Accra after they met in 1993 and have lived together ever after.

    The couple has been blessed with three children: two girls and a boy.

    Fans on social media have been sending their congratulatory messages to the couple, beneath Van Vicker’s post.

    “Congratulations to you guys and forever to go, “Congratulations to you both. Love is indeed beautiful,” were some reactions from fans on social media.

  • “Nopeee! Traumatized with that institution” – Regina Daniels on remarrying plans

    “Nopeee! Traumatized with that institution” – Regina Daniels on remarrying plans

    Nollywood actress Regina Daniels has confidently stated that she is psychologically unhealthy to consider remarrying again.

     Responding to an X user asking whether she would consider marrying another man and if he would be her age.

    She candidly replied, “Nopeee! Traumatized with that institution.”

    Regina has asked netizens to put an end to hurling insults at her mother over her estranged marriage to Nigerian senator Ned Nwoko.

    “Stop insulting my mother. She’s the best woman on earth. She warned me. My brothers warned me. Everybody warned me. Nobody’s going to cry on this camera. Everybody warned me, and then I drove out at night. I was going to kill myself if I didn’t marry Ned,” she said in a video posted on her Instagram page on November 5, 2025.

    Contrary to claims that her parent endorsed her marriage to Ned for money, Regina says she was genuinely in love despite opposition from her entire family.

    She recounted an instance where she drove out of home at night to kill herself over her family’s resistance towards her choice of man.

    “I went to the police station and said, ‘Arrest me. My family does not want me to marry the love of my life.’ But I actually did fall in love. It’s crazy, but I did. And I still care and respect him. That’s love. What is love? Care and respect,” she stated.

    Earlier this year, Regina Daniels returned to Instagram after a brief disappearance, but one striking detail has caught fans’ attention—her husband, Senator Ned Nwoko, is missing from her page.

    The Nollywood actress, who had deactivated her account weeks ago, reappeared with a video post captioned, “Even for convoy I Dey with my Google Map 📌#young&accomplished!” However, what stood out was a noticeable change in her profile.

    Her name, previously displayed as Regina Daniels Nwoko, now reads Regina Daniels Nneamaka Favour. In addition, all posts featuring Senator Nwoko have vanished from her account.

    Her social media break coincided with swirling rumors that the senator had welcomed a child with actress Chika Ike—claims he later denied.

    Though Regina has not addressed the changes, her updated profile and missing posts have sparked widespread speculation, with fans flooding her comment section, eager to know the status of her marriage.

    Regina Daniels revealed that her mother and entire family were against her marriage to Ned Nwoko, the Senator from Delta North.

    Disclosing this during a live on Instagram, the actress said: “I went to visit my boyfriend, and I was so angry about why we had to go sightseeing, but when we got there, I met a cute man.

    “The moral of the story is that your boyfriend should not stop you from seeing your husband.

    “When I started with my husband, I forgot I was to have boyfriends; of course, I had like 20. When people think I don’t have a choice, I’m like, what?

    “People were saying Mummy forced me, not knowing that she was against the marriage; my full family said no.”

    Nwoko tied the knot with Regina Daniels in May 2019 in the Aniocha Local Government Area of Delta State, despite their significant age difference.

    The 63-year-old politician expressed that he chose to marry the 23-year-old actress because she hails from his community.

    “For her particularly, I married her because she is from my place. I wanted to marry a wife from my place and was looking for the right person. By the time I met her, I knew she must be the one,” Nwoko had said.

    Nigerian actress Regina Daniels has expressed her deep joy and pride in being a mother of two, describing it as her greatest honor.

    Sharing a touching photo with her children on Instagram on March 31, 2025, Daniels highlighted her commitment to protecting them and doing everything in her power to ensure their happiness and safety.

    “My greatest honour in life is being a mother to these two adorable angels, and everything I will ever do will be for them,” she shared in the post, radiating love and warmth as she celebrated her role as a mother.

    In her message, Daniels emphasized the significance of motherhood in her life, revealing how her children have transformed her world in ways words can hardly capture.

    Beyond the personal celebration, Daniels also surprised her fans with a generous giveaway, pledging ₦50,000 each to 10 lucky followers to do something special for their own families. She encouraged her followers to share what makes their mothers special, adding an extra layer of joy to the celebration.

    “My children are my everything, and I would do anything for them. It is an honor beyond measure,” she said, clearly overjoyed by the blessing of motherhood.

  • My two-year marriage ended in peace – Sabinus announces

    My two-year marriage ended in peace – Sabinus announces

    Popular Nigerian comedian, Chukwuemeka Ejekwu, more popular as Sabinus, has announce that his two-year old marriage to Ciana Chapman has ended.

    Addressing circulating rumors’ about marital issues, including allegations of domestic violence and infidelity, Sabinus said, “I’m not married.

    “My marriage ended peacefully. The mum and I are good. My daughter is okay, and she is doing fine,” he said during a recent TikTok live stream.

    He adds that he is on good terms with his ex-wife and continues to prioritise the well-being of their daughter.

    Controversial Nigerian broadcaster and media personality, Daddy Freeze has opened up about the collapse of his first marriage.

    According to him, he feared criticism from his church and notable figures in his life which made him maintain appearances rather than reveal the failing state of his marriage to the public. 

    In an interview with Chude Jideonwo on the “With Chude Show,” Daddy Freeze noted that he and his wife at the time weren’t even sleeping in the same room anymore, but they attended church services together.

    “The day she packed her load, the first thing that came to my mind was, ‘Ah, my pastor is going to hear about this, ,” Freeze confessed.

    At this point Daddy Freeze said he realized he was staying in the marriage because of the fear of being demoted from his position in church. 

    “I used to introduce my pastor in church. I used to go to MC church events. And I was afraid, can we manage this in such a way that nobody hears? Then I realised that I was the one putting myself in trouble,” he said.

    According to him, by the time his wife finally left, their marriage had been dead for a while.

    “This union was gone,” he admitted. “We were living in a Cool FM house.

    In Ghana, Cynthia Appiah-Kubi of Mentor II fame, known in showbiz as Cee, opened up about her status as a divorcee after several years.

    She emphasized that her decision was not influenced by instructions from God as some gospel musicians claim.

    Cee said she left her marriage because she could not endure it anymore.

    “I was married to a pastor, but I left because of certain issues and circumstances that I could not stand. He is aware of those issues. God did not tell me to leave my husband; I left because I could no longer take certain things,” she said.

    The mentor star revealed that, she had always resisted proposals to marry a man of God.

    Unfortunatley, she ended up with one and it did not last forever.

    Meanwhile, Ghanaian playwright, author, and motivational speaker, Uncle Ebo Whyte, has advised bachelors and bachelorettes not to allow themselves to be forced into marriage to satisfy societal, family, or peer pressure, emphasizing that marriage is not a requirement in life.

    “Marriage is not given to everybody. Not everybody needs to marry. Not everybody will marry. Marriage is not a magic wand. It may not deliver half of what you expect.

    So if you do choose to marry, do so because you’ve found someone with whom you genuinely want to build a life, not because society says you must,” he noted.

    Taking to his social media (Instagram) yesterday, the playwright in a video boldly challenged the longstanding norm, which asserts the need for everyone to marry, citing evolution and the growth surrounding the purpose of marriage.

    “There was a time when everybody needed to marry. That time has changed. There was a time when there was a purpose of marriage. That time has changed. There was a time when we needed to marry. That time has changed. It’s not now,” he said.

    He affirmed his stance, drawing biblical references to the teachings of Apostle Paul, which admonished that “He who marries does well. He who does not marry does even better.”

    In Ghanaian society and beyond, procreation is often emphasised to ‘pressure’ people into marriage, but Uncle Ebo Whyte argues that population control, coupled with family planning, has shifted that cultural expectation.

    “Because now we are saying there are too many people. Let’s control the population, citing his 42-year-old marriage as companionship as well. Then there’s the issue of companionship. I’ve been married for 42 years. Companionship,” he said.

    He also warned against entirely romanticising marriage, saying that it’s a commitment that requires “hard work, patience, humility, and respect,” not just love.

    Uncle Ebo reminded his audience that people can live happy lives without being married and that marital status does not define one’s values.

    “You are complete with or without marriage. Some of the most fulfilled people I know never married, and that’s perfectly okay,” he said.

    Hiplife pioneer, Reggie Rockstone, has advised that dating should be the focus of single who lack the virtue of patience.

    According him, his years of marriage experience has proven to him that marriage requires hard work and a lot of patience to sustain it.

    who are not yet married should not prioritize marriage if they have not developed the attitude of patience.

    “Just continue being in relationships and don’t think of marriage if you’re impatient. It’s a hard work, but it’s easy as well. Love is good and it’s natural to have a partner,”  he said in an interview on Joy Prime on November 19, 2025.

    Addressing the public perception that dating or marrying a celebrity is difficult, Reggie Rockstone explained that celebrities are humans too, experiencing life in different ways just like everyone else.

    “I’m like everybody else. I go through the ups and downs, I’m actually a stubborn man. Marriage is work. If you’re not patient enough, don’t try it,” he said.

  • My marriage with Empress Gifty collapsed due to poor communication – Prophet Prince Osei

    My marriage with Empress Gifty collapsed due to poor communication – Prophet Prince Osei

    Prophet Prince Osei, former husband of Ghanaian gospel musician Empress Gifty, says he has now come to terms with what he describes as poor communication, a factor he believes contributed to the collapse of their marriage.

    He noted that the absence of proper communication deteriorated their marriage despite several attempts to sustain it.

    “Prayer alone cannot sustain a marriage because there are a lot of factors involved. Also, what I have learned so far about marriage is that good communication is crucial.”

    “Faithfulness alone cannot sustain a marriage. Even if you want to have an affair with your wife, it all boils down to communication,” he said in a video shared on Instagram on December 2, 2025.

    He also recounted how he met his ex-wife when she was still a seamstress.

    “When I met her, she was a designer at Tema Community 1. When I saw her, I knew music would open a lot of opportunities for her because she had a good voice.

    “Her brother introduced her to me. She wasn’t even a church member, but her brother pushed her to my church,” he added.

    Earlier this year, details surfaced online about the divorce between Apostle Solomon Oduro and Counsellor Charlotte Oduro.

    Reports showed that Apostle Oduro initially filed for divorce in April 2024. After his wife responded, he revised his petition and resubmitted it on November 29, 2024.

    In his petition, he stated that their traditional marriage had already been annulled and requested that their ordinance marriage also be officially dissolved.

    A deeper look into the divorce documents reveals the reasons why he believes their marriage cannot be saved.

    Apostle Solomon Oduro has revealed shocking details about his marriage troubles with Counsellor Charlotte Oduro in his divorce petition.

    He claimed that his wife no longer found him attractive, treated him coldly, and left him out of important decisions. He also accused her of disrespect, poor communication, and even turning their children against him.

    According to him, in their 16 years of marriage, they were intimate only 12 times. He also alleged that their children, following their mother’s influence, sometimes locked him out of the house.

    Another issue he raised was that since January 2024, his wife stopped eating meals prepared by their chef. By March, she reportedly told their children to do the same and started cooking her own meals inside the master bedroom.

    He further stated that the situation worsened, leading to emotional and physical abuse, causing him great distress and anxiety.

    “The respondent is abusive both emotionally and physically towards the petitioner. She removed her ring and packed out of their matrimonial home at least twenty times over the slightest provocation,” he alleged.

    He also alleged that their children informed him about her relationships with other men, including her ex.

    He claimed that despite running several businesses, his wife failed to contribute to the household or care for their children.

    Apostle Oduro stated that his wife began her business ventures using proceeds from the naming ceremony for their second child.

    He said she sold items such as oil, communion, clothes and many more at the church and kept the money for herself.

    Despite all these, Apostle Oduro said he purchased a Suzuki 4×4, a Toyota Camry, and later a brand-new Mercedes Benz for his wife.

    However, she later sold the Mercedes Benz and currently owns a Range Rover and a Jetour 4×4.

    He said she also purchased a piece of land in Katapor, near Kwabenya.

    In addition to that, she owns a diaper brand and a wholesale and retail business.

    Apostle Oduro expressed that all these signs indicate that his wife was financially capable of contributing to the home but chose not to.

    In 2024, Kumawood actress Portia Asare opened up about the reasons behind the collapse of her second marriage to Raymond Kwaku Marfo. The actress, who divorced Marfo three years after their 2021 wedding, revealed that their separation was primarily due to her husband’s refusal to provide for her financially after insisting that she quit acting.

    Portia explained that Marfo pressured her to leave her acting career, which she had relied on for her personal expenses.

    “You said you didn’t want me acting any longer, yet you didn’t bother to provide me with any money to start a business. You couldn’t look after me, yet you made me leave my work,” she recounted.However, after quitting, he failed to support her financially or provide the capital needed to start a business. She expressed frustration over the lack of partnership in their marriage, highlighting how her husband neither fulfilled his role as a provider nor allowed her to continue working to sustain herself.

    “I was using the acting to take care of my personal expenses. If I needed about GH₵500 cedis monthly, I could afford it. “That was how I was living till I got married.

    “Now, you come and you couldn’t help me continue that system and you would allow me to add my own money to the little you’re bringing so it works together,” she said.

    Reflecting on her situation, Portia emphasized that many marriages fail because they lack the essential element of mutual support. She shared how difficult it has been to rebuild her life after the end of her second marriage, stressing that a true partnership in marriage should uplift both individuals rather than bring one down.

    “That’s why many marriages don’t last long; the core mandate of marriage is missing from it. You came into the marriage to push me up the ladder, not bring me down.

    “You go into a marriage for two to three years and by the time you leave, you have to build yourself from scratch all over again,” she added.

  • Focus on dating, not marriage, if you lack patience – Reggie Rockstone’s advise to singles

    Focus on dating, not marriage, if you lack patience – Reggie Rockstone’s advise to singles

    Hiplife pioneer, Reggie Rockstone, has advised that dating should be the focus of single who lack the virtue of patience.

    According him, his years of marriage experience has proven to him that marriage requires hard work and a lot of patience to sustain it.

    “Just continue being in relationships and don’t think of marriage if you’re impatient. It’s a hard work, but it’s easy as well. Love is good and it’s natural to have a partner,”  he said in an interview on Joy Prime on November 19, 2025.

    Addressing the public perception that dating or marrying a celebrity is difficult, Reggie Rockstone explained that celebrities are humans too, experiencing life in different ways just like everyone else.

    “I’m like everybody else. I go through the ups and downs, I’m actually a stubborn man. Marriage is work. If you’re not patient enough, don’t try it,” he said.

    Renowned Ghanaian actor Van Vicker is celebrating twenty-two years of marriage with his wife, Adjoa Van Vicker.

    Taking to social media in celebration of the milestone, the actor attributed all that has contributed to the stability of his marriage to God.

    He shared a photo on his Instagram page with the caption “22 years of counting, Na God.”

    Van Vicker got married to his wife on October 16, 2023, in Accra after they met in 1993 and have lived together ever after.

    The couple has been blessed with three children: two girls and a boy.

    Fans on social media have been sending their congratulatory messages to the couple, beneath Van Vicker’s post.

    “Congratulations to you guys and forever to go, “Congratulations to you both. Love is indeed beautiful,” were some reactions from fans on social media.

    In 2024, Ghanaian gospel sensation Diana Antwi Hamilton and her husband, Dr. Joseph Hamilton, are joyfully marking 19 years of marriage.

    The couple, who tied the knot in August 2005, celebrated their anniversary with a touching Instagram video featuring a special moment between them.

    Diana expressed her gratitude and love with the caption: “This is indeed the doing of the Lord. Happy anniversary to us @drjosephhamilton. I still do wai.” Over the course of their marriage, they have been blessed with twins, a boy and a girl.

    In another heartfelt post, Diana shared a nostalgic photo of herself and her husband, proudly wearing the same heels she wore at their traditional wedding ceremony nearly two decades ago.

    In the same year, Ghanaian actress Selly Galley and husband Steven Fiawoo known popularly as Praye Tietia expressed gratitude for 15 years of love and growth.

    The reality star, who recently welcomed twins with her husband, praised him as the best the world has to offer and shared their joy on Valentine’s Day.

    She stated that they keep getting better and growing finer like fine wine.

    “15years together this year. Like fine wine we keep getting better and growing finer 🥰♥️ A strong team 🥰Unconditional and intentional 🫶🏻♥️

    “Specially tailored for each other. Till casket baby @prayetietia we ride and d!ẽ. You’re an incredible man, the best the world has to offer, blessing to me and I love you deeply! #happyvalentinesday,” Selly captioned their photos.

    In 2023, Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, took to social media to mark her 27th wedding anniversary with her husband, Captain Matthew Ekeinde.

    The actress, while celebrating their anniversary, ceased the occasion to also wish the Captain a glorious happy birthday.

    Omotola added that although they have been married for 27 years, they are yet to get into the second phase of their union.

    While reiterating her endless love for the Captain, she added that their youngest child is 27 years hence they wouldn’t need parental guidance anymore.

    She wrote: “Happy birthday my Forever HoneyBoy… And… Happy Anniversary to us. 27 years and we only just about to get into phase 2 ! Last kiddo now 21… no more PG …. Ready Love? ♥️ U Endlessly

    Her post generated reactions from social media users as it appeared that Omotola’s husband had a tattoo of the actress name “Omosexy” on his arm.

    Also in 2020, Talented Ghanaian actor, Adjetey Anang, celeberated thirteen years of been married to his wife.

    Taking to his Instagram page, Adjetey Anang shared some photos of his beautiful wife from their recent marriage vow renewal to mark the celebration.

    He wrote: “Happy 13th Anniversary to you my dearest @elom_anang . Another new beginning… Another phase to grow better & better. Wish u lots of favour & blessings!”

    Waking up to the same person for thirteen years is definitely no joke. It takes someone with balls to be able to stay faithful with one woman especially since cheating has become the new trend for most relationships.

  • “It’s not necessarily about privacy” – Temi Otedola on her low-key lifestyle

    “It’s not necessarily about privacy” – Temi Otedola on her low-key lifestyle

    Actress and fashion entrepreneur Temi Otedola has shared reason behind her decision to keep details of her life away from the public.

    She and Mr Eazi maintained a low profile throughout their courtship, engagement, and marriage, only to surprise the public with the news of their union solemnization.

    Temi shared in an interview with the BBC that, it’s not necessarily about privacy. “I think it’s more about owning your own narrative.”

    According to her, there is power in living a quiet life as it gives one the power to control narratives.

    “And there’s something about, you know, moving in silence that allows you to, to have certain control over things. It allows you to, yeah, to build the narrative you want,” Temi stated.

    For her, it’s empowering to choose when and how to share personal details of life.

    “And also you’re able to share when you feel you’re ready to share, when you want to share and share it in the way you want to share it.”

    “So I think all of those things are kind of why I’ve always been someone to, to share, whether it’s a work project or personal news, I share it in my own time,” Temi Otedola shared..

    Nigerian singer Oluwatosin Ajibade, popularly known as Mr Eazi, officially tied the knot with actress and daughter of billionaire businessman Femi Otedola Temi Otedola, in a private and intimate ceremony in Iceland after their near decade relationship.

    News of their marriage ceremony emerged after Nigerian comedian Broda Shaggi shared clips on his Instagram Story which captured the musician having a good time with Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote, in Iceland.

    The wedding was held at the iconic Hallgrímskirkja Church in Reykjavík, with just a few friends and family in attendance.

    Adorned with flowers and closed to the public, the venue reflected the couple’s enduring wish to keep their love story — and the details surrounding it — away from the public eye

    The second daughte of the Nigerian millionaire was wore a sleek white satin gown with a square neckline, delicate straps, and a modest train. She paired it with minimal jewelry, just diamond studs and a simple bracelet with a soft and natural makeup, and her hair styled in a low, elegant chignon.

    Her partner, Mr Eazi also rocked a crisp white shirt paired with a classic black tuxedo jacket and matching trousers. His look was clean, tailored, and understated, with no flashy accessories.

    Mr Eazi first publicly confirmed his relationship with Temi Otedola in a 2017 Channel 4 News interview titled “Stories of My Life on African Instrumentals”.

    In that conversation, he spoke about his music journey and casually acknowledged his relationship with Temi.

    This was after rumours had began about their relationship following their chemistry in public and frequent appearances together.

    Temi later confirmed the relationship herself, through her lifestyle blog and social media posts. Their bond became more visible when she featured Mr Eazi in her YouTube series.

    Subsequently, Temi confirmed that they met at a DJ Cuppy event, which she had hosted for her sister.

    It got official when the duo announced their engagement in April 2022, when the actress posted a 38-second video of the proposal on Instagram.

    Social media buzzed after . Also in attendance were Temi’s sister, DJ and music producer Florence Otedola—popularly known as DJ Cuppy, their mother, Nana Otedola and Africa’s richest man Aliko Dangote.

    Following the emergence of their wedding photos and videos, the couple have received congratulatory messages from fans and celebrities across Africa, celebrating not only the love story between two stars but also the blending of music, film, and high-profile business worlds.

    Profile of Temi

    Temiloluwa Elizabeth Otedola was born on March 20, 1996, into one of Nigeria’s most prominent families. She is the youngest daughter of billionaire businessman Femi Otedola and his wife Nana Otedola. Her siblings include Tolani, a singer; DJ Cuppy, a DJ and music producer; and Fewa, her younger brother.

    Temi spent much of her childhood in London, where she attended boarding school in Kent and later studied Art History at University College London.

    In 2014, she launched her fashion and lifestyle blog JTO Fashion, which documents her travels, style, and beauty inspirations. The blog quickly gained popularity and helped establish her as a fashion influencer.

    Temi made her acting debut in 2020 in the Nollywood film Citation, directed by Kunle Afolayan. She played the lead role of Moremi Oluwa, a university student navigating a sexual harassment case. Her performance earned her the Best Actress award at the Ghana Movie Awards in 2021.

    She later starred in The Man for the Job (2022) and is set to appear in Ms. Kanyin (2025), a supernatural thriller. Despite not attending formal acting school, Temi has been praised for her natural talent and screen presence.

    Temi is also a podcaster, co-hosting How Far with her now-husband Mr Eazi, a Nigerian singer and entrepreneur.

    In 2024, she became the first Nigerian Digital Brand Ambassador for L’Oréal Paris.

    She currently lives between Lagos and London, balancing her work in fashion, film, and media.

    Profile of Mr Eazi

    Oluwatosin Oluwole Ajibade, professionally known as Mr Eazi, was born on July 19, 1991, in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. He grew up in Lagos in an entrepreneurial household—his father is a pilot and aviation consultant, and his mother ran a small business. From a young age, Mr Eazi was surrounded by music, often listening to records his father played during family breakfasts.

    At age 16, he moved to Ghana to study Mechanical Engineering at Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (KNUST). While at university, he founded Swagger Entertainment, a party and promotion company, and began dabbling in music. His first notable appearance was on the track My Life, which became popular on campus.

    In 2013, he released his debut mixtape About to Blow, followed by Life Is Eazi, Vol. 1 – Accra to Lagos in 2017, which featured hits like Skin Tight and Leg Over. Mr Eazi pioneered a genre he calls Banku Music, a fusion of Ghanaian highlife and Nigerian chord progressions, which helped him stand out in the Afrobeats scene.

    Beyond music, Mr Eazi is a savvy entrepreneur. He launched emPawa Africa, a talent incubator that has supported rising African artists like Joeboy. He’s also ventured into tech, e-commerce, and even gold mining. In 2022, he graduated from Harvard University, further cementing his reputation as a multifaceted creative and businessman.

    Mr Eazi is signed to Mad Decent and Universal Music Group, and his music has earned him awards including the Next Rated award at The Headies and recognition at the WatsUp TV Africa Music Video Awards.

  • I’ll not succumb to societal pressure to get married because I’m aging – Actress Nwago

    I’ll not succumb to societal pressure to get married because I’m aging – Actress Nwago

    Nigerian actress Ebube Nwagbo has shared her opinion on societal pressure mounted on singles to get married.

    According to a post shared by Africa Glitz on X, the 42-year-old actress says she will not succumb to expectations from friends, family, and the general public against her own happiness.

    “I’m not in a rush to marry. No one—family, friends, or social media—can make me feel ashamed or left behind. I’m 42, and that’s fine,” African Glitz quoted the actress as having said.

    The actress says she is not ready to entangle herself with a lifetime decision that may not end well due to desperation.

    “I’ve seen people marry at 25, only to walk away years later, bruised and broken. Some came out of it depressed, lost, and silent. The pain they carry… it’s too much. Society sees none of that until it’s too late. Then they start pretending to care,” she reportedly said.

    Ebube has emphasized she prefers to wait for a love that brings her peace rather than chaos.

    “I want peace, not pressure. I want love, not wounds. I want a home, not a cage.”

    She has boldly declared that she would rather choose to remain unmarried at 42 than to trade her peace of mind and joy for societal expectation.

    “Marriage should feel like breathing, not drowning. I won’t enter a marriage just to impress people or meet a deadline. No deadline is worth my peace of mind. I want something real. And if that takes time, so be it. It’s better to walk in late and whole than rush in early and come out shattered.”

    Ebube is a renowned actress from Nigeria, a producer, model and entrepreneur.

    She has featured in over 150 Nollywood films, including notable titles like “Arrested by Love, Widow’s Cult, and The Evil Queen.

    Apart from acting, Ebube is a successful entrepreneur who owns a hair salon named PoshHair and runs an entertainment company called PoshWorld Production.

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  • Video: Charlotte Oduro advises men not to marry if they do not have money

    Video: Charlotte Oduro advises men not to marry if they do not have money

    Renowned marriage counselor and media personality Charlotte Oduro has addressed recent social media discussions about her marriage with a strong message.

    Speaking to a congregation at the Assembly of God Church on February 23, 2025, she advised unmarried men to prioritize financial stability before considering marriage.

    According to her, a man should have his own place and a stable source of income rather than depending solely on hope for a successful future.

    “If you don’t have money, don’t get married. At the very least, have something that allows you to take care of your family. As a man, you are the head of the household, and you must be established before bringing a woman into your life,” she stated.

    While addressing the congregation, Charlotte Oduro also emphasized that people should not blindly trust their partners’ declarations of love.

    “Anyone who says, ‘I love you, and I would die for you,‘ is not being truthful because the only one who can truly die for you is Jesus. When you love someone, you don’t think twice about the sacrifices you make for them. However, when challenges arise in a relationship, that is when you truly discover whether the person loves you or not,” she added.

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    Rev Carlote’s divorce saga

    Rev. Charlotte Oduro, was married to Apostle Solomon Oduro, the General Overseer of the Royal Victory Family Church. Their marriage was highly publicized due to their prominent roles in the religious and counseling communities.


    Their marriage faced significant challenges, leading to a separation that lasted for three years. Despite multiple attempts at reconciliation, the couple ultimately decided to dissolve their marriage. The traditional dissolution of their union was finalized in 2024, and Apostle Solomon Oduro officially announced the divorce in February 2025.

    In interviews, Rev. Charlotte Oduro has opened up about the reasons behind their separation. She mentioned that she felt confined and lost herself during the marriage. She also highlighted that her husband’s highly spiritual nature and their conflicting views on various matters often led to disagreements.

  • I made a decision to keep my marital affairs private; the old life I lived was unnecessary – Tracey Boakye

    I made a decision to keep my marital affairs private; the old life I lived was unnecessary – Tracey Boakye

    Ghanaian actress Tracey Boakye has voiced her frustration with people who keep meddling in her marriage.

    In a video posted on social media on January 7, 2024, Tracey admitted that her marriage isn’t perfect. However, she emphasized her commitment to keeping the details of her relationship private and off the internet.

    “When I was celebrating my one-year anniversary, people resurfaced the internet with my old videos. My husband has seen them all but has kept quiet and pretended as if he hasn’t.

    “I don’t have the perfect marriage but after I got married, have you heard any negative issues about myself or my husband?

    Sometimes, my mother would tell me that she is surprised by the kind of man I got as a husband because everyone knows I like to fight and argue but my husband doesn’t want trouble and I have stopped my previous life,” she said.

    Tracey Boakye shared that before getting married, she prayed for a humble and God-fearing partner.

    She explained that God answered her prayers, and as a result, she has changed her ways and will no longer pay attention to negative comments from people online.

    “I don’t want to fight on social media again. Because it’s not necessary to fight any longer. I have a child and he is growing so fast that lately, if I want something to be fixed on my phone, he is the one I call… I don’t want him to grow up and see this character on social media.

    “I prayed to God that I have stopped this character and when I am getting married, he should give me a God-fearing man. That is all I asked for and he did it for me. So, whatever you have done in the past, let it go and set a goal for yourself,” she added.

  • Most celebrities’ careers crash when they get married – Nigerian rapper Phyno

    Most celebrities’ careers crash when they get married – Nigerian rapper Phyno

    Nigerian rapper Chibuzor Nelson Azubuike, known by his stage name Phyno, has shared his thoughts on the challenges celebrities face when it comes to marriage.

    The “Alobam” hitmaker described the music industry as both demanding and competitive, noting that balancing it with marriage or other professional commitments is a major struggle.

    He pointed out that many celebrities’ careers tend to suffer after they get married.

    In a recent appearance on the In My Opinion podcast, Phyno opened up about these challenges.

    “Check everybody; statistically, I feel so [most celebrities’ careers crash when they get married].

    “Music basically is a jealous career. That’s why people drop out of school to face music. The ones that had to juggle the two, you have to give them kudos because it’s not easy.

    “Sometimes, some people get to a certain fame level and rush back to school and come back to continue from where they stopped because you have to actually face one. Music is tasking; it takes all your time.

    “Another thing about music is that it is what you pass through that you put into it—life experiences—except if you use songwriters. But if you write your songs, you can’t be talking about happiness when you’ve got a girlfriend that’s stressing you.”

  • Actor Salinko marries again after his first marriage failed 2 years ago

    Actor Salinko marries again after his first marriage failed 2 years ago

    Kumawood actor Oboy Salinko, whose real name is Abraham Davis, has tied the knot just days after his pre-wedding photos surfaced online.

    The actor, whose first marriage to Beatrice Owusu ended two years ago, celebrated his nuptials in a beautiful traditional wedding held in Accra on Friday, November 8, 2024.

    Initial videos from the wedding have surfaced online, showcasing beautiful moments from the event. Salinko wore a green three-piece agbada, while his bride, Lydia, looked stunning in a yellow kente gown with green accents.

    In one of the Instagram clips, gospel artist Piesie Esther serenaded the couple, drawing cheers from the guests.

    Another video, posted by actor Don Little, captured the groomsmen delivering items to the venue. Among the well-known faces present were actor Big Akwes and Peace FM broadcaster Dan Kwaku Yeboah.

    The traditional wedding marks the first part of their marriage celebration. The couple is set to hold their white wedding on Saturday, November 9, 2024, at the Methodist Church in Haatso, Accra.

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  • Is marriage for doom or bliss?

    Is marriage for doom or bliss?

    The answer to whether marriage brings doom or bliss ultimately lies with you. Your mindset, your beliefs, and your expectations shape the experience you’ll have in marriage. Put: What you put into it is what you get out of it.

    So, the real question is, are you entering a marriage with the intention of doom or bliss? Are you thinking of giving or simply taking? Are you marrying for sexual freedom? To have children? To escape loneliness, or do you have someone to provide for you? Or maybe because you’re financially stable and feel you can easily support another person? If your mindset is centered around your needs and happiness, then you’re likely headed for doom.

    Marriage isn’t about just you; it’s about serving your partner and committing to them, no matter what. It’s not about keeping score or constantly pointing out what your spouse isn’t doing right.

    The true purpose of marriage is companionship, procreation, mutual growth, and unwavering commitment—staying by each other’s side through thick and thin. It’s not a platform to flaunt your wedding ring or expect to be pampered.

    Marriage isn’t about control, social status, or having a sharp tongue. It’s about saying, “I’m here for you, no matter what,” through sickness and health, wealth or poverty until death parts you.

    Many people today quickly abandon the “till death do us part” promise at the first sign of trouble. But marriage requires work. It’s not all about romantic dinners and walks in the park.

    You’ll step on each other’s toes, but you must forgive, let go, communicate, and grow together. Ask those who’ve been married for decades—they’ll tell you they had to work through challenges and tough times to keep their marriage strong.

    If you’re young and single, and your view of marriage doesn’t align with these realities, it’s time to rethink your decisions before you potentially disrupt someone else’s life. The government didn’t invent marriage, nor is it some scientific experiment where you can add a few chemicals and expect things to change.

    You can’t simply vote out the bad parts or hope a counselor will magically make everything work. Marriage is an institution created by God, and He alone can guide you through the journey. Yes, “the two shall become one,” but that unity involves God, the husband, and the wife.

    Without God at the center, your marriage is destined for trouble. As single individuals looking forward to marriage, it’s essential to turn to God’s word for guidance. Men, remember that Adam was created without Eve present. Women were brought into the picture after Adam was put into a deep sleep.

    This tells us that neither man nor woman fully understands the other—it’s only through God’s guidance that we truly know who is meant for us. Single men, how do you prepare for marriage? Look at Adam: he spent his days in the presence of God, working diligently in the Garden of Eden, fulfilling his purpose.

    Before God gave him Eve Adam had already established himself in his work. Are you, as a man, pursuing your purpose in life? Are you earning an honest income and staying rooted in God’s presence? When you focus on your purpose and your relationship with God, He will recognize your needs, just as He did with Adam, and provide a suitable partner for you— even before you ask.

    Adam didn’t request a wife, but God saw that it wasn’t good for him to be alone, and He created Eve as a perfect match. This is how God operates: when you remain faithful to Him, He blesses you with the best. So, seek the kingdom of God first, and all else will follow. While you work on your spiritual life, take care of your physical well-being.

    Improve your character, emotions, hygiene, and health. When Adam declared Eve as “bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh,” he was making a lifelong commitment. Are you ready to love the woman you choose to marry, no matter the hardships that come your way? Men, don’t enter marriage expecting your wife to serve you by doing all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry. Marriage is a partnership, not servitude. Learn to handle these tasks yourself because your wife is coming to help you, not to be your servant.

    Now, to the single women: Eve didn’t meet Adam in a nightclub or a sketchy corner of town. She found herself in the presence of God, and that’s where she encountered her husband. Women, you attract what you are. If you’re dressing in skimpy clothes, smoking, or clubbing, you can’t expect to meet a godly man. Eve was in God’s presence and became attracted to a man who was also there.

    So, ask yourself, where do you find yourself? Where do you plan on meeting a godly man? Spend time with God so He can lead you to the right partner. Eve also came to Adam fully formed, with all her physical and spiritual qualities. As a woman, What are you made of? Are you made of gold, bronze, or something lesser? Do you possess pride, selfishness, or greed? Do you respect yourself or allow anyone who shows interest to take advantage of you? Pray to become the wife your husband will cherish—submissive, wise, and full of God’s grace.

    But remember, even Eve faltered when she decided without consulting Adam. Don’t make the same mistake in your marriage. Your husband is not your equal, no matter your social status or education. Once you choose to marry him, you come under his leadership, and that requires submission.

    That’s why it’s crucial for both men and women to seek God before entering into marriage. Marriage is not a game, and there’s no easy way out. The Bible only permits divorce in cases of adultery, not abuse or addiction. While separation can be necessary in extreme cases, the goal is always reconciliation, which is why patience and discernment are essential before making the commitment.

    The high divorce rates in today’s world are alarming, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t looking out for His people. Don’t rush into marriage because everyone else is doing it. Take your time, focus on yourself, and trust God to guide you to the right person.

    For those who are already married, remember that forgiveness, communication, and letting go of bitterness are key. Love each other, support each other, and work through your challenges.

    After all, it’s just the two of you on this journey. A fantastic resource to guide you through these topics is the book How Could I Have Known. It’s filled with practical advice for navigating singlehood, preparing for marriage, and building a successful, God-centered union. This book offers open, honest insights into the challenges and joys of marriage, Christian dating, and even the sensitive topic of divorce.

    Marriage is a beautiful thing when you approach it with the right attitude and mindset.

    Remember, it’s not just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the right person. How Could I Have Known? Hmmm, a question many have been asking themselves for centuries.

    The antidote is in this book and in this masterpiece I dove into the intricate dynamics of relationships, offering a comprehensive exploration from the pain of broken marriages to the complexities of single life and the hopeful aspirations of marital bliss.

    In Part One, “Brokenness In Marriages,” the book examines why some marriages falter, from mismatched expectations and selfish behaviors to abuse and psychological trauma. It then shifts to “Everything Single,” addressing the challenges and misconceptions of single life, including the choice of love, defining relationships, and navigating personal desires versus societal pressures.

    Part Three, “Becoming One,” guides readers through essential preparation for marriage, exploring emotions, cultural influences, and the importance of counseling. Finally, “The Bliss of Marriage” outlines strategies for cultivating a lasting, fulfilling relationship, focusing on love, effective communication, and the profound significance of marriage.

    Whether you’re grappling with marital issues, navigating singlehood, or preparing for a lifelong partnership, this book provides valuable insights and practical advice to help you understand and enhance your journey through love and commitment.

    Source: GhanaWeb

    DISCLAIMER: Independentghana.com will not be liable for any inaccuracies contained in this article. The views expressed in the article are solely those of the author’s, and do not reflect those of The Independent Ghana

  • Don’t stay in abusive relationships, it’s not love – Empress Gifty

    Don’t stay in abusive relationships, it’s not love – Empress Gifty

    Gospel artist Empress Gifty recently made a heartfelt appeal for people to steer clear of abusive relationships during her interview on Daybreak Hitz with Andy Dosty on September 19, 2024.

    She spoke openly about the emotional and psychological damage that abuse can cause, stating that staying in such situations is neither healthy nor justifiable.

    “Don’t stay in abusive relationships; it’s not love. That is something that I don’t condone,” Empress Gifty said, urging listeners to prioritize their well-being and escape toxic environments.

    Her poignant message struck a chord, underscoring the vital need for self-respect and safety.

    In addition to addressing the issue of abuse, Empress Gifty also explored the intricate dynamics of marriage.

    She discussed the societal expectations and biases that often unfairly criticize women who choose to leave their marriages, acknowledging that while marriage may seem straightforward from the outside, it presents unique challenges once you’re in it.

    “Marriage is something that anyone can explain or define, but once you enter, it’s a completely different ballgame,” she noted.

  • “If you’re not mature, don’t get into marriage” – Rex Omar to youth

    “If you’re not mature, don’t get into marriage” – Rex Omar to youth

    Veteran musician Rex Omar, also known as Rex Owusu Marfo, shared some candid advice about marriage during an interview on Property FM in Cape Coast.

    He stressed that marriage is not suitable for everyone, highlighting the level of responsibility it demands.

    According to Omar, maturity and strong leadership are essential qualities for anyone considering such a commitment.

    He cautioned those who may be thinking of marriage for superficial reasons, especially physical attraction, to rethink their decision.

    “Marriage is a serious business, and it’s not for everybody, let me repeat: not everyone is meant to marry.

    “If you’re not mature, don’t get into marriage. Many people enter marriage for sexual reasons, but after the initial excitement, there’s a lot of responsibility involved,” he emphasised

    Once the initial thrill fades, he warned, the realities of managing a partnership and navigating life’s challenges set in.

    For those lacking the courage or maturity to handle these responsibilities, Omar advised them to stay away from marriage altogether.

    “You have to navigate leadership and other challenges, so if you don’t have the courage to handle that, then don’t even consider it.”

  • My marriage is going well – Afua Asantewaa to critics

    My marriage is going well – Afua Asantewaa to critics

    Afua Asantewaa Aduonum, a prominent socialite and businesswoman, has hit back at online critics of her marriage in a recent TikTok video.

    In her response, she expressed frustration over the intense scrutiny and anticipation some people seem to have regarding the potential end of her marriage.

    Afua questioned why there is such a keen interest in her relationship status and criticized those who seem eager for any news of a divorce.

    “There are people who always want to find out every morning if Afua Asantewaa is still married. They wish there would be breaking news saying that Afua Asantewaa is a divorcee. They want me to get divorced so they can celebrate. So, you people don’t appreciate good things?” she said.

    This reaction came after the couple participated in a dance challenge, which had gained attention after being featured on the Big Brother Naija show.

    Some comments on their dance video were notably negative, prompting Afua’s response.

    She took the opportunity to clarify that her public persona might be misunderstood and that she is not as problematic as some believe.

    In other news, on December 24, 2023, Afua Asantewaa attempted to set a Guinness World Record for the longest singing marathon.

    She managed to sing for 126 hours and 52 minutes, initially aiming to finish by December 27 but extended her attempt to five days.

    Despite her impressive feat, she did not secure the record for the longest cooking marathon, as confirmed by Guinness World Records.

  • Marriage is not meant for everyone – Pastor

    Marriage is not meant for everyone – Pastor

    Marriage counselor Rev. Dr. Nanayaa Owusu-Prempeh has highlighted that marriage is not a necessity for everyone, challenging the common misconception that it is.

    She referred to Biblical teachings, specifically Apostle Paul’s preference for celibacy while acknowledging that marriage might be preferable for those lacking self-control to prevent sin.

    In an interview on TV3’s Confession show, Rev. Dr. Owusu-Prempeh urged society to stop judging those who choose not to marry, emphasizing that marriage is not compulsory.

    She also pointed out that individuals who decide against marriage should be aware of the potential challenges, such as the absence of children to support them later in life.

    “We are not all supposed to get married. Marriage is a choice. As Christians, we have role models, such as Apostle Paul, who chose not to marry. In 1 Corinthians 7, he says he wished no man would have a wife, but if you cannot control yourself, you should marry.

    “Yes, it’s better to marry than to masturbate or burn with passion. You should not condemn people who choose not to marry, but they shouldn’t expect my child to run errands for them because they chose not to marry,” she said.

  • Marriage is not a prerequisite to experience God’s hand in your life – Kirk Franklin

    Marriage is not a prerequisite to experience God’s hand in your life – Kirk Franklin

    Kirk Franklin, the acclaimed American Gospel artist, has recently expressed concerns about certain beliefs prevalent in Western Christianity, particularly the way marriage, giving, and sexuality are often “weaponized.”

    During an appearance on Cam Newton’s Funky Friday show, Franklin, now 54, criticized the portrayal of marriage within the church as a remedy for sin. He argued that this notion has been misapplied, leading to judgment and undue pressure on single individuals.

    “Marriage has been weaponised in Western Christianity,” Franklin stated. “There’s this idea that getting married is the solution to sin, but marriage itself doesn’t fix sin.” He shared his personal experiences with his wife, Tammy Collins, highlighting how rigid religious expectations have affected their lives.

    Franklin pointed out the significant pressure that single women, particularly Black women, face in their communities, where the absence of a spouse or children is often misinterpreted as a deficiency.

    “It’s almost as if not being married or childless is seen as a sign that something is wrong with you,” he noted, calling these attitudes harmful.

    The musician also addressed how some of his friends were pushed into marriage under the belief that it was necessary to serve in ministry, criticising the idea that singleness is a barrier to being used by God.

    “People are rushing into marriage thinking they’re obeying God, but in reality, they’re following man-made doctrines. Being married isn’t a requirement for God’s work in your life,” Franklin explained.

    He emphasized the importance of understanding faith and purpose beyond marital status, reflecting on the challenges he and his wife have navigated together since their marriage in 1996. Franklin’s message calls for a broader perspective on identity and value within the faith community.

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  • “I believe marriage has been weaponized in Western Christianity” – Kirk Franklin

    “I believe marriage has been weaponized in Western Christianity” – Kirk Franklin

    Renowned American gospel musician Kirk Franklin has recently expressed concerns about certain beliefs prevalent in Western Christianity, particularly the ways in which marriage, giving, and sexuality have been “weaponized” within the faith.

    Speaking on Cam Newton’s Funky Friday show, the 54-year-old artist critiqued the portrayal of marriage as a remedy for sin, arguing that it has often been misrepresented to pressure single individuals into wedlock.

    “Marriage has been weaponized in Western Christianity,” Franklin stated, challenging the idea that marriage is a solution to sin. He pointed out that this notion can lead to judgment and undue pressure on those who are single.

    Drawing from his own experiences with his wife, Tammy Collins, Franklin shared how they have encountered the negative impacts of strict religious teachings. He emphasized the challenges faced by single women, particularly Black women, who are often judged within their communities if they are not married or do not have children.

    Franklin criticized these societal pressures, calling them dysfunctional, and argued that one’s identity and value should not be tied to marital status.

    “There’s a tendency to view being unmarried or childless as a flaw,” he noted, calling for a shift in perspective.

    He also reflected on how some of his friends were coerced into marriage by the belief that it was necessary to serve in ministry. Franklin challenged this view, asserting that God’s ability to use someone is not contingent on their marital status. He condemned the practice of shaming those who go through divorce.

    “Many rush into marriage believing they’re fulfilling God’s will, but in reality, they’re following human dogma. Being single doesn’t disqualify you from being used by God,” he argued.

    In conclusion, Franklin stressed the importance of understanding faith and purpose beyond the confines of marital status, sharing the difficulties he and his wife have navigated together since their marriage in 1996.

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  • I was already focused, but marriage has made me more focused – Sammy Gyamfi

    I was already focused, but marriage has made me more focused – Sammy Gyamfi

    The National Communications Officer of the National Democratic Congress (NDC), Sammy Gyamfi, has shared how marriage has positively impacted his life and career, highlighting increased focus and discipline.

    Married since December 2022, Mr Gyamfi described marriage as a transformative experience that has provided him with stability and reinforced his commitment to his goals.

    He acknowledges that while he was already focused before marriage, the institution has significantly deepened these attributes.

    “I was already focused, but marriage has made me more focused. Marriage has given me a better half that helps me to execute our plans and objectives. It has been a good experience so far. We are taking it one step at a time and learning a lot thanks to our parents and all the elders. We are making good progress. The thing about marriage is it doesn’t matter how long you have been together; marriage is different from courtship,” he noted.

    In response to recent controversies, including a viral video suggesting a lavish trip to Miami funded by the party, Gyamfi firmly denied any misuse of party funds.

    In an interview on the KSM show, he dismissed the allegations as part of the challenges in his political role and affirmed his commitment to integrity and transparency.

    “It has nothing to do with party funds; some people put it out there for their own mischievous plans. There are aspects of criminality, and I couldn’t let it pass. There are clearly false statements about me. The judicial process is ongoing, and we wait to see what the court will say. I think that my wife has taken it in her stride. I have inculcated in her the need to have a tough skin just like me because of the terrain I find myself in. I know the detractors who put that out there sought to tarnish my image and discredit my voice. It is an old trip I made after I got married. I have never stolen money, and I will never steal money. I don’t know why my private life should remain an issue,” he asserted.

    Reflecting on his political journey, Gyamfi traced his passion back to junior high school, where he developed an interest in politics and leadership.

    Influenced by his father and inspired by figures like Ghana’s former president, Jerry John Rawlings, he pursued law and economics to improve his communication skills and effectiveness in politics.

    “At the JHS level, it was very clear to me I wanted to be a politician and I developed an appetite for reading about political leaders. My father bought me an encyclopedia and installed the Encarta encyclopedia. Rawlings was my ideal, I started following him and took interest in freedom fighters.

    In university, I initially studied Environmental Science, which wasn’t my passion. I began engaging in partisan politics at KNUST, and after completing my first degree, I pursued law and later studied economics to enhance my communication skills.

    He also reaffirmed his steadfast commitment to serving the NDC and advocating for the interests of the Ghanaian people.

  • ‘Marry a rich lady when you become successful’ – Paul Okoye tells men

    ‘Marry a rich lady when you become successful’ – Paul Okoye tells men

    Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy, recently advised men to prioritize achieving financial stability before entering into committed relationships or marriage.

    On his Instagram account, he expressed concern over the increasing pressure on men to prove their financial worthiness before pursuing romantic partnerships.

    Rudeboy urged men to “change the narrative” by focusing on personal financial independence and encouraged them to seek companions who are similarly successful in life.

    He emphasized the importance of everyone, regardless of gender, working towards financial stability.

    “Dear kings, change the narrative, chase money, make money and look for a rich girl. Make everybody go hustle.”

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  • I got married at age 23 – Asantewaa

    I got married at age 23 – Asantewaa

    TikTok sensation, Martina Dwamena popularly known as Asantewaa has opened up about her marriage life.

    During a conversation with actress Emelia Brobbey, Asantewaa disclosed that she tied the knot with her husband when she was just 23 years old.

    She emphasized that marrying at a young age was a conscious decision that matched her personal aspirations.

    Asantewaa clarified that she prefers to maintain a strict boundary between her private life and her professional career.

    Furthermore, she mentioned that her husband and his family are wholeheartedly supportive of her endeavors in content creation.

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  • Churches must ensure branches are certified to hold marriage ceremonies – Registrar of Companies

    Churches must ensure branches are certified to hold marriage ceremonies – Registrar of Companies

    Jemima Oware, the Registrar of Companies, has revealed a startling oversight affecting many marriages in Ghana: a significant number are considered null and void due to non-compliance with legal registration requirements.

    Speaking on the JoyNews AM Show, Mrs. Oware highlighted a prevalent issue—many churches and individuals fail to register marriages under the Registrar General’s Department, a legal mandate essential for the validity of marriages.

    She emphasized that churches are required to complete specific forms to obtain a marriage officer’s license. Unfortunately, many churches neglect this crucial step.

    Mrs. Oware explained, “The ordinance of marriage is very strict. The premises have to be licensed. Sometimes, let’s say the main church is licensed, and they think that the branches therefore can take the legality from the main church. No. Even the branches have to be licensed. So, if your main church is licensed for marriages and the branch is not licensed, that marriage is void.”

    The problem extends beyond church premises. Mrs. Oware noted that marriages conducted in non-licensed venues such as gardens or hotels without a licensed marriage officer are also invalid.

    She stressed that all ministers of religion must be gazetted by the Registrar General through the Minister of Justice to operate legally as marriage officers.

    This oversight has significant implications. Couples married in unlicensed venues or by non-gazetted officers are, in the eyes of the law, not legally married. This revelation calls into question the legal status of numerous marriages across the country.

    To address the issue, Mrs. Oware urged individuals in null and void marriages to visit the Registrar General’s Department to arrange for a special license. This step will ensure their marriages are legally recognized and comply with the ordinance marriage requirements.

    The Registrar’s office is also working on developing new software to document all marriages in Ghana, ensuring better compliance and awareness of the legal requirements for valid marriages. This move aims to streamline the registration process and prevent future occurrences of invalid marriages.

    In the meantime, Mrs. Oware advises couples and religious institutions to familiarize themselves with the legal requirements for marriage and take the necessary steps to ensure their unions are recognized by law.

  • I was very naive when I accepted my boyfriends marriage proposal – Ghanaian pharmacist

    I was very naive when I accepted my boyfriends marriage proposal – Ghanaian pharmacist

    Ghanaian pharmacist Naa Nhyirabea Armoo recently reflected on her inexperience at the time of her marriage.

    She admitted that her limited understanding of marriage and the potential challenges influenced her decision back then.

    Nhyirabea mentioned that if she had the opportunity to choose again, she would prioritize finding a partner with strong religious values. During a discussion on the HomeAffairs show on JoyPrime TV, she expressed a preference for a man deeply committed to faith and religious service.

    “Looking back, I realize how naive I was when I made my choice. I often tell my husband that if he were to propose to me now, knowing who I have become, he would have a tough time. I didn’t fully understand what I was getting into. I sought someone who would accept me for who I am, encourage my authenticity, and appreciate my true self. I wanted a companion who could be a friend and whose principles resonated with mine.

    “However, as I’ve gone through marriage, I’ve come to understand that what matters most to me is a partner deeply rooted in faith, someone who has found God, understands God, and consistently chooses God’s path when making decisions. Marriage is unpredictable, and you can’t foresee what might happen,” she explained.

  • I left my marriage because I was bringing in more income than my husband – Yvonne Jegede

    I left my marriage because I was bringing in more income than my husband – Yvonne Jegede

    Nollywood actress Yvonne Jegede has revealed that she ended her marriage due to earning more income than her husband.

    In 2019, less than a year after their wedding, Yvonne disclosed that her marriage to fellow actor Olakunle “Abounce” Fawole had fallen apart.

    In a video teaser for the latest episode of “The Honest Bunch” podcast, the actress expressed regret for prioritizing love over financial stability.

    She mentioned that her ex-husband, being older, often misinterpreted her jokes as disrespectful, which contributed to their divorce.

    She said, “He [my ex-husband] is eight years older than me. But once we got married, if I said, ‘You dey crease,’ he would claim I was disrespecting him.

    “But that wasn’t the main reason I left the marriage. To be honest, I was the primary breadwinner. I’m taking care of my son as if no one else exists around me. It’s not easy. I should have chosen financial security over love.”

    Besides her acting career, Yvonne Jegede is a Nigerian actress, film producer, model, and television personality, known for producing “3 is Company.”

    She gained prominence after her cameo in the music video “African Queen” by 2Face Idibia, alongside Annie Macaulay.

  • Marriage is not a do-or-die thing, if you are unhappy, walk away – Yul Edochie

    Marriage is not a do-or-die thing, if you are unhappy, walk away – Yul Edochie

    Nollywood actor Yul Edochie shared his perspective on marriage, asserting that a man can marry multiple times if he finds his current partner unsuitable.

    In a recent interview, Edochie highlighted the importance of recognizing when a marriage is not working and urged people not to view it as a “do or die” commitment.

    “Marriage shouldn’t be a do-or-die situation. If it’s not working out, part ways amicably. There’s no need to hurt each other. If you move on and find someone else you want to marry, go for it. If that doesn’t work out either, move on again. You could end up marrying fifty times if necessary. You can’t control how people respond to you.

    Happiness is unique to each individual, so don’t let others dictate what’s best for you. Find out what brings you joy. And if you decide never to marry, that’s perfectly okay. Just focus on being happy,” he said.

  • You can marry as many as you want if you are dissatisfied with your wife – Yul Edochie

    You can marry as many as you want if you are dissatisfied with your wife – Yul Edochie

    Nollywood actor Yul Edochie recently expressed his views on marriage, stating that a man can marry multiple times if he feels his spouse is not suitable for him.

    In an interview, Edochie emphasized that people should recognize when a marriage is failing and that it should not be treated as a “do or die” situation.

    “Marriage is not a do-or-die affair. If it’s not working, walk away respectfully. You don’t have to hurt each other. When you move on and find someone else you want to marry, go ahead. If it doesn’t work out again, move on and marry someone else. You could marry fifty times if necessary. You can’t control how others react to you.

    “What brings happiness varies from person to person, so don’t let anyone dictate what will make you happy.

    “Discover what works for you. If you choose to remain unmarried for the rest of your life, that’s perfectly fine. Just be happy,” he stated.

  • “Marriage isn’t a decree, walk away if it’s not working – Yul Edochie advises

    “Marriage isn’t a decree, walk away if it’s not working – Yul Edochie advises

    Actor Yul Edochie has shared his thoughts on handling unsuccessful marriages, promoting a pragmatic approach.

    He stressed that marriage is not mandatory and encouraged couples dealing with irreconcilable differences to separate amicably.

    Yul, who sparked controversy by marrying his colleague Judy Austin while still wed to his wife May Edochie, suggested that individuals should be open to multiple marriages if needed.

    In a recent interview, he highlighted that marriage should not be seen as a do-or-die affair.

    He emphasized the importance of acknowledging when a marriage is failing and exiting the relationship gracefully.

    In his own words, “Marriage isn’t a decree. If it’s not working, walk away. Respectfully. No need for unnecessary pain. If you find someone else you want to marry, go ahead. And if it doesn’t work out again, move on. You can marry multiple times. Everyone’s happiness is different, and don’t let anyone dictate what’s best for you. Find what works for you. And if you’ve chosen not to marry in this lifetime, then don’t. Prioritize your happiness.”

  • Is King Promise married?

    Is King Promise married?

    Circular Musician, King Promise, has explained that the wedding ceremony depicted in his purported music video, which included important figures in the entertainment industry dressed in Kente, was a legitimate marriage ceremony.

    He clarified that he put so much effort into the purported video production since it was a real marriage ceremony in an interview with Doreen Avio on Daybreak Hitz.

    “It was a true African ceremony. Do you think we will waste money like that?” he quizzed.

    He went on to say that just a small number of close friends and family members were invited to the private ceremony. He did, however, imply that a larger wedding might occur shortly.

    “You may never know if there is another wedding coming. Because this was just a little bit of the whole show.”

    This is in response to reports that the wedding films posted online, which included Sarkodie, Dancegod Lloyd, and Joey B among others, were either real weddings or the set of a music video.

    King Promise has promised his well-wishers that he will formally announce his plan to get married when the time is right. However, everyone should be aware that he prefers to keep personal matters private.

    “Everything will unveil itself very soon. Rest assured I’ll unveil it but my private stuff remains private,” he noted.

  • I’m just disappointed our marriage did not work – Medikal

    I’m just disappointed our marriage did not work – Medikal

    Ghanaian rapper Medikal addressed his recent breakup with Fella Makafui in a live radio interview with Bola Ray.

    Medikal clarified that he is not heartbroken but rather disappointed by the situation.

    He shared his thoughts and emotions regarding the split, highlighting that the end of their relationship has left him feeling let down rather than shattered.

    During the interview, Medikal expressed his disappointment because something he hoped would succeed, namely his marriage with Fella, did not work out.

    “I’m not brokenhearted, I’m just disappointed that something I wanted to work out didn’t work out,” Medikal told Bola Ray.

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  • “I am not married but my brains are working” – Delay’s response to fan questioning her marital status

    “I am not married but my brains are working” – Delay’s response to fan questioning her marital status

    Delay, a Ghanaian celebrity, frequently faces pressure about marriage from fans.

    Despite her accomplishments as a career woman and successful businesswoman, some people seem to disregard her due to her unmarried status.

    Nearly every post she shares prompts inquiries from curious fans urging her to marry. In Africa, unmarried women are often viewed as burdens or failures, regardless of their achievements.

    However, Delay refuses to be belittled. She consistently responds to those who criticize her single status.

    In a recent interaction, a fan commented on one of her posts, noting her lack of a husband despite her achievements.

    Delay retorted, emphasizing that while she may not have a husband, her intelligence allows her to earn a significant income.

  • “I would have been married 3 years ago if I knew it would be this sweet” – Kalybos

    “I would have been married 3 years ago if I knew it would be this sweet” – Kalybos


    Comedian Kalybos has revealed that he is thoroughly enjoying the joys of married life, jokingly expressing a wish that he had started this journey earlier.

    In a chat with Felicia Osei on Onua FM, the actor, who tied the knot in 2023, shared his surprising happiness in marital bliss, confessing that the true depth of its delight only became evident after saying “I do” to his wife.

    “I didn’t know marriage could be this sweet until I married the love of my life. If you wake up to realize someone cares and thinks about you more than yourself, it feels good…if I had known it would have married three years ago,” Kalybos remarked.

    During the interview, which featured his longtime cinematic partner, Ahuofe Patri, Kalybos shared insights into moments from his wedding.

    He disclosed that he had kept Ahuofe Patri’s role as the ‘best man’ a secret until the last minute, surprising his groomsmen.

    Kalybos recounted how Prince David Osei, Bismark The Joke, and James Gardiner had believed that one of them would be chosen for the role and had even prepared their toasts accordingly.

    However, the plan changed, and Ahuofe Patri stepped in to deliver the toast.

    Ahuofe Patri also addressed the criticism she faced for assuming the role of ‘best man,’ particularly from those who speculated about a romantic connection between her and Kalybos based on their on-screen chemistry.

  • It is nice, beautiful – Medikal talks about fatherhood

    It is nice, beautiful – Medikal talks about fatherhood


    Ghanaian rapper Medikal recently delved into his experiences with marriage and fatherhood in a candid interview.

    He discussed how his past marriage has deeply affected his life, emphasizing the importance of not underestimating the impact of such a commitment.

    During the interview on Logic Box, Medikal challenged the idea that age determines the success of a marriage, stating that readiness and preparation are key factors.

    He also spoke fondly of his daughter, Island, calling her a blessing and expressing his dedication to providing for her as his only child.

    Medikal expressed his thoughts on fatherhood as being both pleasant and lovely. “I view fatherhood as a beautiful and enjoyable journey,” he remarked.

    With his highly anticipated 02 Arena concert scheduled for May 3rd, which boasts a lineup of top Ghanaian artists, Medikal is gearing up for a major musical event.

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  • Don’t cheat as retaliation, seek counselling – Counselor Charlotte Oduro advises women

    Don’t cheat as retaliation, seek counselling – Counselor Charlotte Oduro advises women

    Renowned Ghanaian marriage counsellor Charlotte Oduro has shared valuable advice for women grappling with partners involved in extramarital affairs.

    She suggests seeking counselling instead of resorting to retaliation, highlighting the risks of responding with infidelity.

    Oduro emphasises the importance of considering walking away from such challenges rather than succumbing to the temptation of retribution.

    “I want women to understand that resorting to infidelity won’t resolve their issues. Don’t allow your anger to lead you to ruin your future. If you find it unbearable to cope with your husband’s infidelity, seek counselling or consider ending the marriage. Don’t respond to wrongdoing with more wrongdoing,” she advised in an interview with Oyerepa FM and monitored by GhanaWeb.

    She warns that choosing to cheat in response to a spouse’s infidelity can have severe consequences, urging women to prioritise their future well-being.

    In an interview with Oyerepa FM, Oduro urged women not to allow anger to dictate their actions and emphasized seeking counselling or contemplating ending the marriage if coping becomes unbearable.

    She emphasized the futility of responding to wrongdoing with further wrongdoing.

    Furthermore, Oduro lamented societal norms that often overlook men’s infidelity while condemning women who react in kind due to emotional pain.

    “Many women are reacting to men’s infidelity out of hurt, but this shouldn’t be the case. They’ve noticed that society often overlooks men’s affairs but condemns women’s, so they feel compelled to retaliate,” she added.

    She highlighted the need for a shift in perspective and encouraged healthier ways of addressing marital challenges.

  • You can cheat on my sister but don’t let her find out – Man advises brother-in-law at marriage ceremony

    You can cheat on my sister but don’t let her find out – Man advises brother-in-law at marriage ceremony

    A Ghanaian man has gone viral on X platform, formerly Twitter, for the advice he gave his future brother-in-law before his marriage to his sister.

    In the video, the middle-aged man, dressed in Kente, advised his future brother-in-law to be smart and cover his tracks if he ever cheats on his sister.

    “We are all men over here. All men are cheaters. The wise ones are those who cheat without letting their wives know.

    “I know pastors will tell you not to cheat on your wife. I know you are a Christian. If you will cheat on your wife, don’t let her know,” he said.

    He insisted that at no point should his mistress be well off than his sister.

    “Don’t take care of your mistress more than your wife,” he said.

    He advised his future brother-in-law to spend lavishly on his sister.

    He explained that since she has been pampered by her loved ones from home, less cannot be expected when she gets married.

    “Don’t be lazy. Be hardworking so you can provide her with money to spend. Because she has been pampered in the home she is coming from. Take her shopping, make her expensive,” he said.

    The man’s counsel has received divided opinions from X users. While others believe the man is in the right, others say such advice should never be considered.

  • Provide my sister money to spend; we pampered her so do same – Man tells future brother-in-law

    Provide my sister money to spend; we pampered her so do same – Man tells future brother-in-law

    A Ghanaian man is currently trending on X platform, formerly Twitter, owing to the piece of advice he gave his future brother-in-law, ahead of his marriage to his sister.

    In the said video, the middle-aged man clad in Kente advised his future brother-in-law to spend lavishly on his sister.

    He explained that since she has been pampered by her loved ones from home, less cannot be expected when she gets married.

    “Don’t be lazy. Be hardworking so you can provide her with money to spend. Because she has been pampered in the home she is coming from. Take her shopping, make her expensive,” he said.

    With regards to promiscuity, the man advised his future brother-in-law to be wise and cover his tracks should he ever cheat on his sister.

    “We are all men over here. All men are cheaters. The wise ones are those who cheat without letting their wives know.

    “I know pastors will tell you not to cheat on your wife. I know you are a Christian. If you will cheat on your wife, don’t let her know,” he said.

    He insisted that at no point should his mistress be well off than his sister.

    “Don’t take care of your mistress more than your wife,” he said.

    The man’s counsel has received divided opinions from X users. While others believe the man is in the right, others say such an advice should never be considered.

  • Rev Owusu Bempah’s heavily endowed ex-wife spotted at Makola

    Rev Owusu Bempah’s heavily endowed ex-wife spotted at Makola

    Nana Abena Anima, the former spouse of the founder of the Glorious Word and Power Ministries International, Prophet Isaac Owusu Bempah, has been spotted in Makola, Accra.

    In a video shared by Ghanaian blogger Zionfelix, Nana Abena Anima was seen attending the grand opening of Mona Hair Empire Gh on April 26.


    Nana Abena Anima, who was Prophet Bempah’s second wife, made an appearance at the event to show her support for the CEO of Mona Hair Empire Gh.

    According to reports, Prophet Owusu-Bempah and his wife divorced just five months into their marriage.

    Prophet Owusu-Bempah has attributed their breakup to interference from another man of God who holds ill feelings towards him.


  • Woman contends sending child to orphanage, stage kidnap to avoid paternity test

    Woman contends sending child to orphanage, stage kidnap to avoid paternity test

    During a recent segment of the “Odo Ahomaso” show, an unnamed woman dropped a bombshell that could potentially unravel her marriage.

    She revealed that a past extramarital affair led to the birth of her eldest child, a revelation that has left her husband questioning the paternity of their children.

    The woman disclosed that her husband stumbled upon incriminating chat details that exposed her infidelity.

    Although they have since had two more children together, doubts about their paternity linger in her husband’s mind.

    In an attempt to address his uncertainty, the husband decided to pursue a DNA test.

    However, the woman is vehemently opposed to this idea, unwilling to confront the truth of her past actions.

    Instead, she shockingly confessed her plans to fabricate a kidnapping scenario involving their eldest child.

    Her intention is to deceive her husband into believing that their child was abducted, thereby avoiding the revelation of her affair and the child’s true parentage.

    “I cannot bear for my husband to discover the truth about my affair and the paternity of our child. I am considering placing the child in an orphanage under the guise of a kidnapping to salvage our marriage,” the woman stated.

    This revelation has sparked widespread debate and concern, highlighting the complex and challenging dynamics of trust, fidelity, and family in relationships.

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  • Be wary of the kind of person you choose as a partner – Kwaku Manu

    Be wary of the kind of person you choose as a partner – Kwaku Manu

    Ghanaian actor Kwaku Manu has emphasized the critical importance of choosing the right life partner, cautioning individuals to be discerning in their selection process.

    In a recent TikTok live session, Manu stressed that marriage, being a divine institution for procreation, demands careful consideration in partner choice.

    Manu highlighted the potential risks of marrying individuals with incompatible attitudes or dishonest character traits, noting that such unions could lead to personal downfall and even affect business ventures.

    He urged people to prioritise honesty and compatibility in their partners to ensure a successful and fulfilling marriage.

    “Marriage is a significant commitment, and marrying the wrong person can have severe consequences. Dishonesty, in particular, can be more detrimental than other issues,” Manu advised, urging vigilance in partner selection to avoid future complications.

    “Marriage is one of the most expensive things in the world because it is God’s wish and command. Some people say things are thriving for them after marriage but if you marry a satanic person, it can lead to your downfall. There are instances where the woman is honest but the man might be a liar.

    “When the woman finds out later, it could jeopardize the relationship. A dishonest woman is more dangerous than one who engages in extra-marital affairs. One of the things I detest in life is lies, such people should be feared,” he advised.

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  • I don’t see how marriage benefits a man – Kojo Yankson

    I don’t see how marriage benefits a man – Kojo Yankson

    Ghanaian media personality Kojo Yankson has sparked a significant debate on social media by sharing his perspective on marriage and its perceived advantages for men versus women.

    During a podcast appearance, Yankson asserted that, from a practical standpoint, there are no inherent benefits for men in marriage.

    He further emphasized that this contrast becomes even more evident when comparing the perceived benefits enjoyed by women in marital relationships.

    “If I’m being practical and I’m assessing things on a simply cost-benefit basis, it hard to see how marriage benefits a man, especially if we’re comparing it to how it benefits a woman,” he said.

    He continued: “Take a single man, take a married man; what are the things that a married man can do and have that a single man cannot do and have?

    “Name one and I’ll get up and leave,” he challenged the host.

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  • Police set free musicians arrested for insulting Ugandan Prez at wedding anniversary

    Police set free musicians arrested for insulting Ugandan Prez at wedding anniversary

    Police have confirmed the release of eight members of the Crane Performers Group, who were previously apprehended on April 6 for allegedly disrupting President Yoweri Museveni’s speech at the wedding anniversary of former Prime Minister Amama Mbabazi.

    The event, celebrating Mr. Mbabazi’s 50th marriage anniversary to Jacqueline Mbabazi, took place at Kampala Serena Hotel on April 6.

    Mr. Luke Owoyesigire, Deputy Spokesperson of Kampala Metropolitan Police (KMP), verified the detainees’ released during a media briefing on April 8.

    He stated that they were freed on the same day they were detained by the Special Forces Command (SFC).

    Further inquiries were deferred to SFC spokesperson Maj Jimmy Omara, who indicated a lack of detailed information regarding the incident.

    The alleged disruption occurred as President Museveni addressed the guests, with the Crane Performers reportedly criticising him in Runyankole for speaking excessively.

    This action was perceived as disrespectful and caused surprise among the audience.

    Security personnel, including Lt Tonny Komakech of the SFC, identified the Crane Performers as responsible for the disruption, leading to their arrest.

    Among those apprehended were the group’s director, Gordon Kayovu, along with Edward Tugume, David Muvunyi, Walter Oleng, Simon Bebwa, Paul Ruduli, and Tonny Okello.

    The detainees were facing charges under the Penal Code Act of 2024, particularly for allegedly insulting the President, a charge that carries a possible penalty of life imprisonment as per the law.

  • Ceremony between Ga priest and minor was not marriage but traditional rite – Chieftaincy Minister

    Ceremony between Ga priest and minor was not marriage but traditional rite – Chieftaincy Minister

    The Minister of Chieftaincy and Religious Affairs, Stephen Asamoah Boateng, has clarified that the viral social media video depicting a ceremony in Nungua was a traditional rite, not a marriage event.

    The ceremony on Saturday, March 30, 2024, sparked controversy, with calls for the arrest of Gborbu Wulomo, Nuumo Borketey Laweh XXXIII, for allegedly marrying a minor against the law.

    After engaging with stakeholders involved, including the Ga priest and the Ministry of Gender, Children and Social Protection, the Minister stated that the event did not involve marrying the girl to the Wulomo.

    “During the event a lot of things were said and the information came out as if they were marrying the girl to the Wulomo.”

    “Through these discussions, it became evident that there were no intentions of carnal relations with the young girl,” he said Sunday, April 07, 2024 on Accra-based JoyNews.

    He emphasized that discussions revealed no intentions of engaging in carnal relations with the young girl.

    Furthermore, the Minister revealed that the girl at the center of the controversy has been relocated from the Nungua Community for her welfare.

    Amid ongoing investigations, Mr. Asamoah Boateng pledged to collaborate with law enforcement agencies and local communities to ensure justice and accountability, reaffirming the government‘s commitment to safeguarding the rights and well-being of minors.

    Following a preliminary investigation, it was disclosed that the girl is not 12 years old, as initially reported, but will turn 16 in June this year.

  • Do whatever you want, we will support you – Wee smokers in Nungua encourage Gborbu Wulomo

    Do whatever you want, we will support you – Wee smokers in Nungua encourage Gborbu Wulomo

    Some residents of the Nungua community have openly declared their backing for the recent marriage of 63-year-old Gborbu Wulomo, Nuumo Borketey Laweh XXXIII, to a minor, Naa Yoomo Ayemuede.

    In a widely circulated video, one of the youths expressed, “Gborbu Wulomo, all I want to tell you is that do what your soul pleases. Don’t be afraid, we smokers are behind you.”

    Gborbu Wulomo faced backlash when a video of the marriage ceremony surfaced online, which took place on Saturday, March 30, 2024, in Nungua.

    According to the Spokesperson of Gborbu Wulomo the young girl would not be required to fulfill marital responsibilities “until the fourth ritual is performed.

    He added that the “Wulomo will not have any sexual relations with her as he will have to wait until she is mature or she reaches the legal age of marriage and childbirth”.

    Meanwhile, the Paediatric Society of Ghana (PSG) strongly condemned the marriage ceremony, emphasizing that it violates the Children’s Act of 1998, which prohibits forcing a child under the age of 18 into marriage.

    However, the GaDangme Council clarified that the relationship between the traditional Ga priest and the 12-year-old girl is a betrothal, not a marriage.

    The Council expressed support for Gborbu Wulomo’s stance, citing initial reports that suggested another ceremony awaited the girl to prepare her for procreation.

    “Important to clarify that the traditional ruler has stated that the relationship with the underage girl is a betrothal and not a marriage. This distinction to us has altered the legal implications.”

    “We are inclined to side with the Gborbu Wulomo since the original reportage made the point that there was another ceremony that awaited the girl to purify and prepare her for procreation.”

  • It is abominable for Gborbu Wulomo to marry a 12-year-old girl – Francis Sosu to CID

    It is abominable for Gborbu Wulomo to marry a 12-year-old girl – Francis Sosu to CID

    The Member of Parliament for Madina, Francis-Xavier Sosu, has lodged a formal complaint with the Criminal Investigations Department (CID) seeking the apprehension, inquiry, and prosecution of Gborbu Wulomo, a 63-year-old traditional leader, for marrying a 12-year-old girl.

    The 63-year-old Gborbu Wulomo, known as Nuumo Borketey Laweh XXXIII, has come under intense scrutiny following the circulation of a video showing his marriage to Naa Okromo, a 12-year-old girl. The controversial traditional wedding took place on Saturday, March 30, 2024, in Nungua.

    In defense, Gborbu Wulomo asserted that the young girl would not be expected to assume marital responsibilities.

    However, Mr. Xavier-Sosu, in his petition to the Director General of the Criminal Investigation Department on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, contended that such a union violates both local statutes and international standards safeguarding children’s welfare.

    He labeled the marriage as “unlawful, void, and against the law,” stressing that under Ghanaian legislation, individuals under the age of 18 are prohibited from entering into marriage.

    Mr. Sosu cited Ghana’s adherence to various international treaties condemning child marriages, including the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW), and Ghana’s 1992 Constitution.

    Furthermore, he underscored that not only does the marriage contravene international law, but it also infringes upon Ghana’s Children’s Act of 1998, which stipulates the legal age for marriage as 18 years old.

    Mr. Sosu urged the CID Director General to take prompt action to safeguard the rights and well-being of children in Ghana.

    “ARTICLE 16 OF THE CONVENTION ON THE ELIMINATION OF ALL FORMS OF DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN (CEDAW) states that women should have the same right as men to “freely choose a spouse and to enter into marriage only with their free and full consent”, and that the “betrothal and marriage of a child shall have no legal effect and all necessary action, including legislation, shall be taken to specify a minimum age for marriage.“In addition to the above, I wish to respectfully state that, beyond the realm of International Law, Ghana has taken further steps to criminalise Child Marriages and Betrothals in all its ramifications. In Particular, ARTICLE 28 of Ghana’s 1992 Constitution defines a child as a person below the age of eighteen years. In the spirit of Article 28 every child and young person must “receive special protection against exposure to physical and moral hazards”

  • 63-year-old chief marries a 12-year-old girl

    63-year-old chief marries a 12-year-old girl

    A recent marriage ceremony has ignited widespread discussion on social media platforms after a 63-year-old man tied the knot with a 12-year-old girl.

    Identified as Gborbu Wulomo Of Nungua, the man’s decision to marry someone significantly younger has raised eyebrows and prompted reactions from various quarters.

    In response to the public outcry, the Nungua Mantse, known as King Odaifio Welenttsi III, has defended the controversial marriage.

    He cited religious scripture from Leviticus 21:13, which emphasises marrying a young virgin from one’s own community.

    The union has drawn sharp criticism online, with many questioning the appropriateness and legality of such a marriage, particularly given the significant age difference and the young age of the bride.

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  • Ariana Grande to settle ex-husband $1.25m in divorce – Los Angeles Superior Court passes judgement

    Ariana Grande to settle ex-husband $1.25m in divorce – Los Angeles Superior Court passes judgement

    Musician, Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez’s nearly three-year marriage has come to an official end, as confirmed by a Los Angeles Superior Court judgement on Tuesday.

    The 30-year-old pop sensation and the 28-year-old real estate broker finalised their divorce, with Grande agreeing to a one-time payment of $1.25 million (£980,000) to Gomez as part of their settlement.

    Grande filed for divorce six months ago, citing irreconcilable differences, marking the conclusion of a relationship that began in January 2020, just before the Covid-19 pandemic.

    The couple tied the knot in a “tiny and intimate” ceremony at Grande’s Montecito, California home in May 2021.

    In addition to the monetary settlement, Gomez will receive half of the proceeds from the sale of their Los Angeles property. Grande has also agreed to cover up to $25,000 in his legal fees, with no provision for future alimony.

    The separation, which occurred over a year ago, was facilitated by a prenuptial agreement, and the absence of children or legal disputes allowed for a swift finalisation of the divorce proceedings.

    Gomez, hailing from southern California, has a decade-long career in luxury real estate, as noted on his AKG profile. The couple’s public debut was in February 2020, followed by a cameo in Grande and Justin Bieber’s Stuck With U music video in May of the same year.

    Grande, a two-time Grammy Award winner, recently released her seventh studio album titled Eternal Sunshine on 8 March. She is also set to star as Glinda, the good witch, in the film adaptation of the musical Wicked alongside Cynthia Erivo, Michelle Yeoh, and Jeff Goldblum, scheduled for release in November.

    The divorce marks a new chapter for both Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez, following a significant period of their lives spent together.

  • It is unacceptable to cheat on your partner during marriage – Kofi Kinaata

    It is unacceptable to cheat on your partner during marriage – Kofi Kinaata

    Ghanaian musician and rapper Kofi Kinaata has made known his take on infidelity. For the “Fante” man, it is unacceptable to be unfaithful to your spouse.

    Kofi Kinaata made his stance known during a conversation on marriage with celebrated Ghanaian musician Kwame Nsiah-Apau known popularly as Okyeame Kwame.

    Prior to his view on infidelity, Okyeame Kwame noted that in the olden days, women were taught that it was okay for their husbands to be unfaithful to them and have concubines.

    According to him, this was practiced by the Akans and as such daughters were discouraged from divorcing their unfaithful husbands.

    “Some of the Muslim girls are taught that a Mallam can have two to three women. In the olden days, the Ashantis taught their daughters that you can’t leave your husband because he has cheated on you. If you are an Ashanti lady and you tell your mother that your husband has cheated on you, she will even slap you. He has cheated on you and so what? Did you die?” he said.

    After Okyeame Kwame’s submission, Kofi Kinaata said, “being unfaithful to your spouse is a no-no.”

  • Marriage is more spiritual than physical – Okyeame Kwame tells Kofi Kinaata

    Marriage is more spiritual than physical – Okyeame Kwame tells Kofi Kinaata

    Celebrated Ghanaian musician Kwame Nsiah-Apau known popularly as Okyeame Kwame, has shared his perspective on what marriage actually is.

    In a discussion with popular Ghanaian musician and rapper Kofi Kinaata on romantic relationships, Okyeame Kwame noted that although the physical attractiveness of ones spouse plays a role during the courtship stage of a relationship, it holds less significance during marriage.

    He noted that while partners can withdraw from each other owing to some hurtful words or actions said or done, the couple is still in a union since they are one in spirit.

    “Marriage is not about body. It is a spiritual matter. You can’t abandon the spirit but you can do that to the body. The body can insult you and you’d get pissed at the body and withdraw but for spirit, you can’t,” he told Kofi Kinaata.

    The two holding a discussion comes as no surprise as Kofi Kinaata featured Okyeame Kwame on his latest song ‘Sika’.

    After the release of the song on March 4, 2024, a lot of music fans have not just admired the synergy of the collaboration but have also wondered why the Rap Dacta would team up with the Fante Rap God for such a masterpiece.

    According to Okyeame Kwame, he had always wished to have a song with Kofi Kinaata, because he respects his creativity. Kwame was the only one who had won the Songwriter of the Year at the Ghana Music Awards (GMA) twice until Kofi Kinaata came to change the narrative, by winning it on three occasions.

    “I wanted to know what is in that head, and I called him for us to do a song together, and during the recording sessions, I realised why he is a great writer, ‘the boy get common sense period’. Very intelligent, very smart, he has learnt the trick and the trade,” he said.

    Okyeame Kwame further noted that it is a big opportunity for him to do a song with Kofi Kinaata, especially taking into consideration all his sterling artistic attributes.

  • My marriage lasted 5 months; I’m not interested in getting married again – Hammer

    My marriage lasted 5 months; I’m not interested in getting married again – Hammer

    Famed music producer Edward Nana Poku Osei, aka Hammer, shared the untold story behind his short-lived marriage, shedding light on the factors that led to his divorce decades ago.

    Hammer disclosed that his marriage lasted only five months, attributing the separation to a lack of compatibility between him and his ex-wife.

    The producer explained that they decided to tie the knot after welcoming a child together before marriage, aiming to avoid societal criticism.

    Despite not being deeply in love, Hammer believed the union could work, opting for a traditional and discreet wedding.

    However, the couple soon realized their lack of affection for each other, leading to an amicable agreement to end the marriage early on.

    Hammer reflected on the situation, asserting, “The match wasn’t made in heaven, but we were great friends, especially because we raised a kid together.”

    Decades after the divorce, he emphasized that his focus has been on prioritizing his children, expressing disinterest in remarriage.
    Nevertheless, Hammer remains open to the possibility of tying the knot again, revealing, “I am currently with a very great woman, and with time and God, you know, it will happen, but I am not in a hurry.”

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  • Iona Reine tells how her journey to marriage started 3 days after meeting her husband

    Iona Reine tells how her journey to marriage started 3 days after meeting her husband

    Ghanaian musician Mercy Onuawonto Sam, also known as Iona Reine, recently recounted how she met her husband, Pastor Okrah, and the conversations that culminated in their marriage.

    She disclosed that, initially, she had no intentions of getting married when she crossed paths with Pastor Okrah, who showed a keen interest in her despite her status as a secular artist.

    Iona shared that one of her songs, titled “Obra,” deeply resonated with her husband during a challenging period in his life. This connection prompted Pastor Okrah to reach out to her via Facebook, sparking conversations that quickly evolved.

    Remarkably, just three days after they began chatting, Pastor Okrah proposed marriage to Iona, signifying the swift progression from their initial interaction to their decision to marry.

    “He [Pastor Okrah] got to know me when I released my song titled ‘Obra.’ He used it to encourage himself while he was in a bad situation. He started following me on Facebook and sent me a DM to propose to me.

    “When we started chatting, he proposed on the third day, so I prayed about it the next day and got an answer. A few weeks later, we met, and I got to know him better. At that time, I did not have plans for marriage and had decided never to go into one, but it happened,” she shared in a TikTok live session.

    Iona Reine’s marriage with Pastor Okrah

    Iona Reine and Pastor Okrah celebrated their union in a modest traditional ceremony held at McCarthy Hills on Thursday, January 11, 2024. Iona donned a beautifully crafted burgundy corset outfit adorned with intricate beadwork, exuding elegance and refinement. Her groom complemented her attire by opting for a matching kaftan, completing their coordinated look.

    Referring to the occasion as a “ministry wedding,” Iona Reine expressed deep gratitude for the transformative influence of Christ in their lives. She reflected on their journey from their previous lives as individuals associated with a different lifestyle to embracing their new roles as gospel ministers. With sincerity, she sought divine grace to sustain their marriage until death parts them.

    This marks Iona Reine’s second marriage, following her previous divorce, and she shares two children with her ex-husband.